Can you do self-insemination at home ?
Hey there, partners! We need to talk about an important topic: foreplay. It’s not a luxury; it’s a necessity. Our bodies don’t just spring to life at the snap of your fingers, especially when you think a casual touch will do the trick while we’re busy making dinner. It’s a process. To truly enjoy intimacy, we must first disconnect from the myriad of responsibilities buzzing in our minds. We need to unwind and set the mood.
So, how do you help us get there? Simple: foreplay.
A little kissing, gentle touches, maybe even some oral pleasure—put in the effort! Because let’s be clear: this isn’t just about your satisfaction. We want to reach our own peaks too. When sex feels like a clinical examination, it’s just not right.
Thoughts from Women on Foreplay
Here are some candid thoughts from women who crave that essential build-up before diving into the main event:
- “Why doesn’t my partner understand that foreplay matters? I need that slow build, the anticipation. Instead, he goes straight to penetration, and I feel so bored.” — Confessional #1
- “I’m done with mundane ‘checkbox’ sex. I told him I need foreplay like we had before the kids.” — Confessional #2
- “I adore my husband, but our intimate moments are lacking. It’s like three minutes of sex with no foreplay. Sigh.” — Confessional #3
- “I love my husband, but the routine is just so bland. I want more excitement and effort in the bedroom.” — Confessional #4
- “Sex feels rushed and one-sided. I’d be in a better mood if we could both enjoy foreplay longer.” — Confessional #5
And the truth is, many women miss the romance. “I miss long make-out sessions. Now, we’re lucky if we get half an hour for everything twice a month.” — Confessional #6.
Let’s face it: partners should want us to enjoy the experience, right? “It’s frustrating when every encounter feels like a repeat performance without any thought to what I need.” — Confessional #7.
Good foreplay seems to be a lost art. “I had a guy recently who had no idea how to properly engage. It was like he was a teenager with no clue.” — Confessional #8.
We’re tired of feeling like our needs are secondary. “I finally told my partner that his foreplay is terrible, and to my surprise, he made an effort to improve!” — Confessional #9.
Women are learning to voice what they want. We’re no longer silently enduring unsatisfactory experiences. If partners don’t step up, we might just seek satisfaction elsewhere.
The Message
So, here’s the message: Let’s elevate the foreplay game, urgently. Busy moms need that extra care to switch off their “mom-brain” and be present. We need affection and to feel desired before you rush into things. If you don’t put in the effort, the consequences might not be in your favor.
Further Reading
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