Hey, society, listen up: not everyone dreams of a household bustling with kids. Some women prefer to have just one child, and others choose not to have kids at all. It’s not like everyone can easily have a new baby every year like that cousin who already has five kids before reaching 30. Regardless of how many children someone has, why should it be anyone’s concern? The choice is personal and should remain that way.
So here’s an idea: let’s refrain from passing judgment on a mother because she doesn’t have a horde of hungry toddlers clinging to her. You have no idea about her circumstances. Her decision to have one child could stem from a place of either sorrow or happiness. Some mothers are content with just one child, while others long for more but face biological hurdles.
When you encounter a woman with any number of kids, remember this: she’s probably exhausted, juggling countless responsibilities, and could really use a moment of peace. So, either bring her a coffee and praise her efforts or keep your distance. Don’t pry into her life or judge her for having an only child.
I’m ONE and DONE, and I’m perfectly fine with that. Anyone else feel the same?
Confessionals from the “One and Done” Club
Confessional #25801193: I’ve never felt “baby fever.” I had one unplanned pregnancy. He’s a great kid, and I love him, but I’m sticking to being one and done.
Confessional #18464317: I’m thankful for my one child. He keeps me on my toes! I sometimes feel a twinge of baby envy, but then I remember the reality of raising multiple children. Nope, I’m happy with my one and done plan!
In reality, there are countless moms who intentionally choose to be in the “one and done” club, and they’re content there. Shouldn’t we just trust mothers to make the right choices for their families?
Confessional #10586447: I often make excuses for being one and done. My body handled the first pregnancy well, and I don’t want to risk that luck again. No apologies here.
Confessional #23730199: Why do people judge me or my child for being an only child? This kid is amazing, just like yours will be, with or without siblings. Please stop assuming we need a bunch of kids to be happy.
Confessional #17542818: My sister looks down on me for having just one son. After a miscarriage and some personal challenges, my family is happier being one and done. Don’t judge us.
Confessional #17062028: I’m ready for my partner to get a vasectomy. I’m relieved to be off birth control and feel more confident about my choice to have one child.
Many women want more children but face fertility challenges. Judging their choices only adds to their pain.
Confessional #21897119: As an only child, I’ve never felt deprived. In fact, I’m grateful for my upbringing.
Siblings don’t guarantee happiness, and some families simply can’t afford more kids. Kids need love and support, whether they have siblings or not.
So, if you’re a “one and done” mom, whether by choice or circumstance, know that you love your child dearly and are doing an amazing job. To all the judgmental folks telling women to “give their kids a sibling,” mind your own family and let others be. Everyone is just trying their best to raise kind individuals who don’t judge others based on their choices.
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In summary, the choice to have one child or more is deeply personal and varies greatly from family to family. Society should respect these choices without judgment, as each family dynamic has its own unique strengths and challenges.