It feels like influencers are everywhere these days—MLMs, diet products, lifestyle bloggers—you name it. They seem to be inescapable. While building a career through social media doesn’t reflect one’s character, it’s hard to ignore those who seem to live solely for the ‘gram. Many people are venting their frustrations about influencers, even those they know well. When someone in your circle becomes an influencer, it can be challenging not to form judgments.
I often find influencer culture to be a troubling mix of narcissism and societal harm. The confessions reveal a common sentiment.
Confessions
Confession #1: “I see videos of ultra-conservative influencers moving into their sororities, and while I roll my eyes, I can’t help but feel a twinge of jealousy. They seem so happy, but how can they afford all those decorations?!”
Confession #2: “I had to unfollow a girl I once babysat. At just 24, she’s modeling, has a high-powered job, and is an influencer simply by sharing her life. It serves as a painful reminder of my own struggles at 35.”
Confession #3: “Can we all agree that influencers often make us feel inadequate? From decor to cars, the pressure is real.”
Confession #4: “My ex’s new wife is an influencer who has been posting pictures of my kids without asking. I’m furious and plan to have her take them down. You’re not their mother!”
Confession #5: “Some of my mom friends act like they’re influencers. It’s exhausting, and I’ve stopped engaging with them because I’m tired of feeding their egos.”
Confession #6: “My friend aspires to the glamorous life of Instagram influencers—designer clothes, fancy breakfasts in Paris, and first-class travel. I want to tell her that many of these influencers come from wealth or have other advantages.”
Confession #7: “What even is an influencer? Do people really want to take advice from someone who seems spoiled and entitled?”
Confession #8: “I know mom friends who don’t have huge followings but curate their Instagram like they’re getting paid for it. It’s ridiculous!”
Confession #9: “I can’t help but wish for an apocalypse just to bring influencers down to earth with the rest of us.”
Confession #10: “I found my partner’s old girlfriend on Instagram, and it breaks my heart seeing him like all her bikini photos. I can’t bring it up without sounding crazy.”
Confession #11: “Instagram makes me feel inadequate. They portray a perfect family, and it gets me down.”
Confession #12: “All these perfect homes and families on Instagram are overwhelming. One person posted about not comparing ourselves while showcasing her expensive house. It’s infuriating!”
If you find yourself struggling with influencers on social media, consider taking a break or following positive figures like Martha Stewart. She offers a refreshing perspective without fostering feelings of inadequacy. Watching her care for her geese on Instagram brings me a surprising amount of comfort.
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Summary
Influencer culture can be frustrating and draining, especially when it leads to feelings of inadequacy and jealousy. Many people express their disdain for influencers, even those within their personal circles. It’s essential to remind ourselves that social media often presents a curated version of reality, and following positive figures can help mitigate those negative feelings.