These moms unapologetically prioritize staying in over socializing.
One of the perks of parenthood is having a ready excuse to skip almost any event. Don’t want to visit Grandma for Easter? “Oh no, sorry, Liam is feeling under the weather.” Looking for a reason to dodge a child’s birthday party? “Oops, the baby is teething; we just can’t make it.”
Then there are the moms who don’t even bother with excuses—they’ll let you know straight up that they’re not coming. Some of us just prefer the comfort of home, and we’re proud of it!
Our confessional is filled with moms who wholeheartedly embrace their hermit identities. They wear their hermit badge with honor, thank you very much!
“I absolutely love being married to a pilot. I’m a hermit at heart, and so is he, which makes it perfect for us. A month of solitude followed by two weeks of delightful dates, vacations, passionate moments, and missing each other. I get peace, quiet, and the chance to truly appreciate him.”
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“If I had financial freedom, I’d probably live as a hermit in a remote location, enjoying life’s comforts. I simply don’t crave constant interaction, yet here I am, never alone.”
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“At 57, with grown children and a retired husband, I’ve become a hermit since Covid hit. I never want to leave the house anymore. I’m not agoraphobic or depressed; I just enjoy my own hobbies. Socializing? Overrated.”
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“I want to hermit away from everyone, including my husband and kids. I honestly don’t like being around anyone.”
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If you were a homebody before 2020, chances are you’ve fully embraced your inner hermit by now. And that’s perfectly fine! Socializing can be draining. It might feel enjoyable at first—and it’s undoubtedly necessary for our overall well-being—but eventually, some of us just want to be at home, cozy in our elastic pants, cuddled under a fleece blanket on the couch.
“I sent my daughter to school today for the first time in nearly a year. She was ecstatic. I’m so scared. I’ve tried to prepare her for safety, but I feel like I’ve already failed. Covid has made me a hermit, and I worry about ruining her happiness.”
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“I find adults utterly disappointing. I just want to retreat from all of them. My patience has dwindled this year, and I totally understand why hermits choose to be alone.”
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The political climate and the pandemic have revealed many people’s true colors. We all have limited tolerance for one another, so why push it? “I’m deleting all my social media. I’ve never done this before. I’m already practically a hermit, and it’s my only social outlet. Either I’ll get outside more or learn to be okay with myself.”
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“I’m secretly relieved that my kids are old enough to text and call their friends on their own so I don’t have to manage their social lives. If it were up to me, we’d never leave the house. I’m such a hermit.”
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“I’m a TOTAL hermit! I cancel outings and seldom want to leave my home to socialize. I worry about how this could affect me as I age. Will this mess me up someday?”
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“Just had my baby two weeks ago, and we’ve had visitors nonstop. The hermit in me is screaming to tell people to go away!”
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A new baby is the perfect excuse to let your inner hermit shine! Unless they’re bringing delicious food or willing to clean your house, tell your friends and family to take a hike.
“I’ve been feeling lonely working from home lately and considering going back to a full-time job. I spent this week in the office, and—NOPE. I can’t wait to return to my lazy mornings, pajamas, and my peaceful hermit life.”
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“I enjoy being a homebody! I’ve created a warm and inviting space for family and friends. I’d rather host gatherings at home than go out. The downside? Some people judge me negatively for it, labeling me a hermit.”
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“I’m renovating my house with lots of DIY projects and nice finishes. When I’m done, I’m never leaving home again. I’ll be a hermit in a beautiful space.”
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“I was pushed into social interaction last night, and this morning I’m utterly drained because of it. Motherhood has transformed me into a hermit.”
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If you identify as a hermit and feel happy about it, clap your hands! Seriously, it’s refreshing to see so many women embracing their homebody nature without guilt. Whatever works for you is what matters. Especially if you’re an introvert who recharges through solitude—do what you need to thrive!
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Summary
This article explores the joys of being a hermit, especially among moms who are unapologetic about their preference for solitude over socializing. Many women share their experiences of embracing a home-centered lifestyle, especially since the pandemic, and highlight the comfort and contentment they find in their own company.