Before 2016, many of us who lean left could engage in meaningful dialogue with those on the right. I certainly could. Before the divisive rhetoric and power grabs of that era, I understood where conservatives were coming from. I found common ground and respected their voting choices, even amidst our disagreements.
Now, everything has changed, largely due to the Republican Party’s unwavering support for a leader who embodies authoritarian tendencies. Families have fractured, friendships have ended, and conflict has become the norm. So many of us have reached a breaking point, deciding we can no longer tolerate the warped ideologies of QAnon, Trump loyalists, or those influenced by Fox News. While we hope for their awakening from the delusion, we simply can’t accommodate the hate, racism, or homophobia in our lives anymore.
It troubles me to see how many of my conservative friends and family believe a higher power placed Donald Trump in office but deny the same for Joe Biden. It seems like their faith only exists when their candidate wins.
Confessions
Confession #1: My ultra-religious in-laws have started excluding me and my partner from family gatherings, likely due to my progressive views on issues like choice and public health.
Confession #2: I can’t wait for my conservative in-laws to see the Pride flag and BLM sign at our new home. If they disapprove, they can leave. I’m not catering to their bigotry.
Confession #3: Living in close proximity to my Republican family makes it tough to find an excuse to skip family gatherings without causing further rifts. The GOP’s influence has devastated my family for their greed and power.
Confession #4: It’s painful to recognize that my extended family is entrenched in outdated, patriarchal beliefs. Sometimes, letting go is necessary for our own peace.
Confession #5: I’ve developed a strong dislike for conservative media. My partner seems trapped in its ideology, fixating on taxes instead of realizing the potential for a more progressive society.
Confession #6: I love my partner, but conservative talk shows have turned him cynical and judgmental. I long for the person he used to be.
Confession #7: My partner has become so indoctrinated by conservative rhetoric that he believes the rioters were justified. We need social reform now!
Confession #8: The influence of conservative media like Fox News has deeply affected many of our loved ones, including our spouses. We yearn for their return from this dark ideology.
Confession #9: I refuse to vote Republican again. They knew the truth yet chose to protect their interests over justice. I’m ready for a more humane society.
Confession #10: It scares me that we are on the brink of allowing extreme right-wing ideologies to dominate America. I can no longer support conservative candidates after seeing their true agenda.
Confession #11: After 30 years as a Republican, I’ve voted Democrat across the board. I’m furious about the hold wealthy individuals have over our country.
Confession #12: Fortunately, more Republicans are waking up and rejecting hate and corruption. Together, we can work towards a more equitable America.
Confession #13: As a progressive Christian surrounded by conservatives, I find their intolerance exhausting. I’ve chosen to stay quiet to avoid conflict.
Confession #14: If I had financial independence, I would relocate to a more progressive area. Living in a conservative town is suffocating.
Confession #15: This conservative environment is overwhelming. My views have evolved, and I can’t revert to old beliefs. My partner is satisfied as a Trump supporter, which is concerning.
Confession #16: I live in a state where Republican leaders block COVID precautions, even with a 30% positivity rate. Yet they are confused about losing the election.
Confession #17: Many conservatives remain in pockets across America, isolated from progressive ideas.
Confession #18: I began as a homeschooling conservative Christian but have since shifted toward a more liberal perspective. We now find humor in our past beliefs.
Confession #19: We once raised our kids in extreme conservative religious settings but have since moved away from that life. The remnants of those beliefs still impact us.
Confession #20: I now identify as a progressive Christian, unable to align with right-wing ideologies. I regret how I once thought and acted.
Confession #21: Admitting my departure from evangelical Christianity is daunting, especially in a circle dominated by extreme conservatives. I miss the kinder beliefs I’ve adopted.
But the struggle continues. Conservative Christians are breaking free from outdated, oppressive rules and are embracing principles that support women’s rights, body autonomy, and the idea that love is love.
The conservatives I know are feeling threatened as their dominance wanes, and I find joy in the emerging freedoms for all. Change is inevitable, as my grandmother used to say, the past wasn’t so great.
I celebrate every story of a former Republican choosing to vote Democrat. It’s a thrilling shift that brings hope for a better future!
If you feel trapped in a red state or surrounded by a conservative family, know that you’re not alone. We stand with those supporting the Bidens, fighting for LGBTQIA+ rights, and celebrating the rich diversity of America’s cultures. Together, we can heal the wounds inflicted by Trump and his followers.
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Summary
This article explores the experiences of individuals feeling isolated in conservative environments, highlighting the growing discontent with outdated beliefs and the struggle for acceptance. It emphasizes the importance of community, support, and the ongoing journey toward a more inclusive society.