From Struggle to Success: My Self-Insemination Journey with PCOS
Dealing with infertility is a difficult and emotional journey for many women. But for those who have Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS), the struggle can be even more challenging. PCOS is a hormonal disorder that affects 1 in 10 women of childbearing age, and it is a leading cause of female infertility. As someone who has PCOS, I understand the struggles and frustrations that come with trying to conceive. But I also know that with determination, perseverance, and the help of modern medicine, it is possible to overcome this condition and achieve success. In this blog post, I want to share my personal self-insemination journey with PCOS, and how it led me to become a proud mother through the assistance of MakeAMom.
My journey with PCOS started when I was in my early 20s. I had always struggled with irregular periods and acne, but it wasn’t until I was trying to conceive that I was diagnosed with PCOS. I remember feeling devastated and overwhelmed when my doctor explained to me that my chances of conceiving naturally were slim. I was determined to do whatever it takes to have a baby, and that’s when I stumbled upon the concept of self-insemination.
Self-insemination is a method of conceiving without the use of a partner’s sperm. It involves using a syringe to insert sperm into the cervix during ovulation. This method is often used by same-sex couples or single women who want to conceive. As a single woman with PCOS, I saw self-insemination as my best option for becoming a mother. However, the process was not as simple as I initially thought.
The first step in my self-insemination journey was to find a sperm donor. I was fortunate enough to have a close male friend who was willing to help me in this process. We went through all the necessary health screenings and legalities to ensure that everything was done safely and legally. While this step was not easy, having a supportive friend made the process a lot less daunting.
The next step was to track my ovulation. This was crucial as timing is everything when it comes to self-insemination. As someone with irregular periods due to PCOS, I had to use ovulation predictor kits and track my basal body temperature to determine when I was ovulating. This required a lot of patience and consistency, but it was necessary for the success of my self-insemination journey.

From Struggle to Success: My Self-Insemination Journey with PCOS
Once I confirmed that I was ovulating, it was time for the actual insemination. This was a nerve-wracking experience for me as I had never done anything like this before. I remember feeling anxious and scared, but also hopeful that this would be the start of my journey towards motherhood. With my friend’s help, we followed all the necessary steps, and I performed the insemination at home. And then came the dreaded two-week wait.
The two-week wait is the time between ovulation and when a pregnancy test can accurately detect if you are pregnant. This was the most challenging part of my self-insemination journey. Every day felt like a rollercoaster of emotions as I waited to find out if my efforts were successful. And finally, after two weeks, I took a pregnancy test and saw two lines. I was pregnant! I couldn’t believe it. After months of trying, I was finally going to be a mother.
My pregnancy was not without its challenges. As someone with PCOS, I was at a higher risk for complications such as gestational diabetes and preeclampsia. However, with the help of my doctor and regular monitoring, I was able to have a healthy pregnancy. And on a beautiful summer day, I gave birth to a healthy baby girl.
My journey to motherhood was not easy, but it was worth every struggle and challenge. The experience of self-insemination taught me patience, determination, and the power of never giving up on my dreams. And while PCOS may have made my journey more difficult, it also made me appreciate the miracle of motherhood even more.
As someone who has gone through this journey, I understand the struggles and challenges that come with PCOS and self-insemination. That’s why I am so grateful to have come across MakeAMom. This platform offers a supportive community for women dealing with fertility issues, as well as resources and information about self-insemination. They also offer sperm donor services, making the process of self-insemination more accessible and stress-free for women like me.
In conclusion, my self-insemination journey with PCOS was a rollercoaster of emotions, but it led me to the most rewarding and fulfilling experience of my life – becoming a mother. I hope that by sharing my story, I can offer hope and support to other women who are going through a similar journey. And for those who are considering self-insemination, know that it is possible to achieve success, and MakeAMom is here to support you every step of the way.