By: Sarah Collins
Updated: Aug. 13, 2015
Originally Published: Jan. 8, 2015
One of the greatest joys of my blogging journey has been the expansion of my social circle. Through this platform, I connected with Emma Jensen, a fellow enthusiast of social media and its power to engage audiences—especially after her debut book was released in 2014. In “Chic Auntie: The Definitive Guide for Fabulous Aunts, Great-Aunts, Godmothers, and All Women Who Cherish Children,” Emma highlights the profound joy and love embedded in the relationships between aunts and their nieces, nephews, and godchildren. Recognizing Emma’s deep insights into happiness, I was eager to explore her thoughts.
What simple activity consistently boosts your happiness?
I love calling my niece and nephew just to hear their laughter. Their voices instantly brighten my day.
What’s a key lesson about happiness you wish you had known in your teenage years?
As a teen, I believed that happiness stemmed solely from being popular. Now I understand that true happiness often leads to popularity instead.
Do you have a favorite mantra or saying that you find uplifting?
“Keep moving forward.” A dear friend reminds me of this whenever I share a success; there’s always more to achieve if I maintain a positive outlook.
What behaviors do you notice in others that enhance or diminish their happiness?
I can certainly speak to what used to hinder my happiness. I focused too much on what I lacked by my mid-30s (a spouse, children) instead of embracing who I was (a loving aunt, an entrepreneur). Once I shifted my perspective and began to identify myself positively (I’m not childless, I’m “childfull” because I surround myself with children), I quickly recognized that happiness is a personal definition. This epiphany led me to create ChicAuntie.com in 2008 and write “Chic Auntie: The Definitive Guide for Fabulous Aunts, Great-Aunts, Godmothers, and All Women Who Cherish Children.” Many women have uncovered their immense worth as aunts and godmothers, finding fulfillment in the vital roles they play in children’s lives. This realization brings immense joy to both them and me.
Do you actively work on your happiness? If so, how?
Absolutely, every single day! I focus on letting go—not as a form of defeat, but as a way to understand that outcomes aren’t always immediate. When I attempt something that I believe will bring joy and it doesn’t work out, I trust that future success may come from unexpected avenues. Releasing my preconceived notions of what should make me happy, while believing that all efforts lead to greater joy, is my primary pursuit. My faith in happiness remains unshakeable.
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In summary, embracing unconventional forms of motherhood, such as being a devoted aunt, can lead to profound happiness. By redefining our roles and focusing on the joy we bring to children’s lives, we can cultivate a fulfilling and meaningful existence.