Amber Johnson’s poignant letter captures the sentiments of countless women navigating this challenging moment. “Your candidacy has revealed the stark reality of how women, including themselves, are valued in this country,” she writes, reflecting the emotions many of us are grappling with.
In the wake of the recent election, Johnson recalls reaching out to friends, sharing images of their tear-streaked faces and recounting sleepless nights filled with anxiety. “We found ourselves reassuring our children about the nightmares of division and fear,” she shares. “We had to explain to our daughters why a man with a history of disrespecting women is now in the highest office.” The solidarity among women is palpable this week; we understand each other’s pain and frustrations.
Johnson articulates a collective experience: “We’ve all faced the disappointment of being overlooked for promotions, labeled as ‘too aggressive’ instead of ‘ambitious leaders.’ We’ve done the work, often better than our male peers, only to be unrecognized.” Despite her extensive qualifications and experience, the loss was a harsh reminder of the systemic undervaluation of women.
“The country’s reaction to your candidacy reflected both its celebration of and animosity towards women,” Johnson writes. “You became a beacon for us, illuminating both our progress and the challenges that lie ahead.”
It was impossible to overlook the somber expressions on the faces of women everywhere; that look of defeat, of disbelief, resonated deeply. It was an acknowledgment of our worthiness and potential, now overshadowed by an unexpected outcome. “If those expressions could speak, they would echo our unvoiced questions: What went wrong? How did we end up here?”
In her letter, Johnson expresses gratitude: “We recognize the labor you have put forth, and we now understand the tasks that await us. Your journey has opened our eyes to the value placed on women in our society. Through your leadership, we see the connections binding us and the rifts that still need mending.”
One of the most heartrending realizations post-election is knowing that many women supported the opposing candidate. It feels like a betrayal of our rights and liberties. What Hillary represented was the hope for acknowledgment of our achievements, a national validation of our equality. “We may not have received that recognition yet, but through this struggle, we’ve discovered that our true power lies within us, and no single event can diminish that,” she asserts.
“We rise. It’s in our nature.”
“You embodied a revolution simmering beneath the surface for generations. You were the figure we could rally around to illustrate the complexities of female power—how it is celebrated, how it is threatened, and how it is often stripped away. This power is dangerous in the best way, and it empowers us.”
“I see you, Amber Johnson. Thank you for recognizing us.”
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In summary, this week has been a whirlwind of emotions. Many women are grappling with feelings of frustration, disbelief, and a renewed sense of purpose. As we reflect on the lessons learned, we recognize the strength within us to continue fighting for equality and recognition.