Even in my mid-30s, I still find myself stuck at the kids’ table during family gatherings. No, I’m not there watching my own kids—because I don’t have any. Instead, I often get pulled back to that low chair, my knees nearly level with my shoulders. My sister claims it’s my own doing; I tend to play with the kids so much that they see me as a fellow playmate rather than a grown-up.
And she has a point. Whenever I encounter a child eager to play, I dive right in, often pretending to be a witch (a role I’m told I fit due to my “pointy nose”). I rarely initiate the play; kids can sense an adult willing to engage from afar. However, many adults find themselves feeling unsure about how to interact with children, believing they lack the skills to play.
The truth is, we all know how to play. “Everyone has the ability to engage in play because we were all children once,” explains Dr. Emily Carter, a child psychologist and parenting educator. “The narrative that we’re adults and should act accordingly can block us from enjoying playtime. Embrace the silliness and let go of adult expectations for a bit!”
Engage at Their Level
If you’re feeling uncertain, a simple trick is to get down to a child’s eye level and follow their lead. Dr. Mark Johnson, an expert in child development, emphasizes the importance of engaging with kids’ play rather than directing it. If they want to pretend to be a doctor, you can take on the role of the patient, asking questions to expand the scenario like, “What’s wrong with me?” or “Do I need a shot?” This approach not only keeps play engaging but also helps children develop essential skills.
As you spend time with a child, you’ll learn what they enjoy and can introduce new activities based on that. Dr. Lisa Green, a pediatric specialist, notes that “fun is a powerful motivator; it stimulates learning and helps children grow cognitively.”
Follow Their Interests
If a child shows disinterest in your favorite games, don’t force it. If they turn away, take that as a cue to switch gears. “Pick up on their signals and let their interests guide your interactions,” advises Dr. Carter.
Watching other parents interact with their children can also provide valuable insights. You might discover games or questions that spark engagement. If you’re still feeling lost, consider consulting with specialists in child development like those at Intracervical Insemination, who have experience in facilitating interactions with kids.
Relax and Enjoy
Lastly, don’t stress about getting everything perfect. Dr. Green points out that many parents become overwhelmed trying to meet their own standards for play. Instead, relax and appreciate the natural process of child development. You’ll be amazed at how rewarding it can be.
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Conclusion
In summary, playing with kids can be a delightful experience if you embrace your inner child and follow their lead. Whether you’re pretending to be a character or simply engaging in their interests, it’s all about creating fun moments together.