Father’s Day is approaching, and finding the perfect gift for the father figure in your life can be a daunting task, especially given the current circumstances that have left many of us feeling cooped up. As an ordinary dad, I can assure you that what I truly desire on this special day isn’t found in stores. While I can’t speak for every father, I have certainly received my fair share of underwhelming gifts over the years. One year, I was given a pillow shaped like a poop emoji, which eventually made its way to my child’s room. The reality is, I don’t need another tie, a pair of shoes, or a T-shirt that proclaims “Best Dad in the Galaxy” with a picture of a popular character. What I truly want doesn’t require me to leave the house, as going out for a family dinner can often be more trouble than it’s worth.
Here are four straightforward requests I have for this Father’s Day, and I suspect they may resonate with many dads navigating through these unusual times.
1. Quality Movie Time with My Kids
Each Tuesday, I sit down with my two daughters to watch My Little Pony. It’s a bonding moment for us, although my teenage son prefers to stay in his room. While I appreciate this time, I would love to switch things up and enjoy a film from my own childhood, like the original Star Wars or The Goonies. There’s something incredibly fulfilling about sharing a classic movie with my children, and I know they’d enjoy it if they gave it a chance. However, I might need to establish it as a Father’s Day activity to ensure they’re onboard.
2. A Favorite Meal
This may sound cliché, but food holds a special place in our hearts. My ultimate meal is a plate of homemade bean and cheese burritos with Mexican rice. It’s heartwarming to have family members ask me what I’d like for my special day. Whether it’s pizza or my favorite burritos, the joy of takeout is that everyone can choose what they love. Less debate over dinner means more time to enjoy each other’s company.
3. Time for Hobbies
Fatherhood can be a whirlwind, and despite the world slowing down, I still juggle two jobs. I love cycling, and I would cherish a couple of guilt-free hours on my bike this Father’s Day. It doesn’t require an entire day, just a little uninterrupted time to indulge in a passion. Every dad may have his own hobby, whether it’s tinkering in the garage or working in the yard. Giving a parent time to themselves is one of the greatest gifts, especially now when family time seems endless.
4. An Uninterrupted Nap
This Father’s Day, all I want is a peaceful nap. I’m craving uninterrupted sleep until I wake up feeling that disoriented bliss that comes after a long rest. Between early mornings and late nights filled with stress about finances and health, I wouldn’t mind catching some Zs on the floor, as long as it’s free from toys and crumbs.
Looking back at this list, I realize that my wishes aren’t all that different from what my wife desired for her Mother’s Day: a chance to sleep in, some time for her gardening hobby, and watching a beloved film with the kids. It turns out that when it comes to parents, the desires for rest, favorite foods, and a little personal time are universal.
So this Father’s Day, let’s keep the celebration uncomplicated, sweet, and low-stress—not just for dads, but for everyone involved.
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Summary
Father’s Day gifts should prioritize simple pleasures like quality time with family, a favorite meal, personal hobbies, and much-needed rest. Dads typically seek meaningful, uncomplicated experiences rather than material gifts, reflecting a universal desire for relaxation and connection.