Let’s face it, life can get pretty chaotic. Whether you’re a busy parent juggling kids, or you just need a moment to breathe, we often overlook our own needs. Perhaps you crave a steaming cup of coffee like my wilting plants crave water, but you keep telling yourself there’s no time. Or maybe you have your eye on that new book in the shop window or that trendy lip gloss that has the younger generation chuckling in their oversized jeans. Sometimes, all you need is a few moments of solitude in the bathroom, scrolling through TikTok while the kids are busy.
But whatever it is you desire, make it a point to give yourself a little gift every day. Don’t overthink it; don’t save it for later. As the wise character Dale Cooper from “Twin Peaks” suggests, just let it happen.
Why You Deserve a Treat
Being a parent is no small feat. You spend your day trying to manage small humans who often resist being managed. It’s like herding cats—angry, spitting cats. Yet, amidst the chaos, they’ll surprise you with a hug or an “I love you.” There are lost shoes, misplaced lunches, and moments where you wonder if the school board has truly lost their minds.
So, treat yourself! Take the scenic route home and belt out your favorite songs from Spotify. Indulge in a gossip magazine while your child is occupied with “Paw Patrol.” Or simply enjoy that exquisite new bar of hand soap.
New Parents Need Gifts Too
If you’re a new parent, you know all too well the struggles of choosing between breast or bottle, carrier or stroller. It’s mind-boggling that a bunch of nurses allowed you to leave the hospital with a tiny human that demands your constant attention. With your messy bun and pajamas that have seen better days, it’s hard not to feel overwhelmed.
You deserve a little something for yourself. Put down that crying bundle, rock the bouncer while you paint your nails a fierce shade of black. Hand the baby off to your partner or a family member for just a few minutes and take a well-deserved shower. Shave your legs if that’s your thing. Wear your baby in a carrier and bounce on an exercise ball while ordering something frivolous online. Just remember, it can’t be something you actually need—no, paper towels don’t count!
Keep Prioritizing Yourself
As your kids grow, the challenges change but don’t disappear. Sorry, parents of infants; it’s just as tough as you imagine, just a different flavor of hard. Your little one will inevitably spill their rice sensory bin all over the living room or pee everywhere but the toilet. They’ll grow bigger, lose their shoes, and suddenly refuse to shower.
So, give yourself a present. Spend a few minutes scrolling through cat videos on YouTube while they play. Drag them along to a thrift store, let them play in the toy section, and treat yourself to something you don’t actually need—a wild fur vest that you might never wear out. You want it, and that’s enough of a reason.
Warm up that cold coffee. Take your dog for a solo stroll. Snag that lip gloss you’ve been eyeing. Look out the window for ten minutes. Just don’t forget to give yourself something special each day. Life is fleeting, and we pour so much of ourselves into others and the relentless grind of daily responsibilities.
Take a moment. Watch a David Bowie video. Dress up. Get that fancy journal you don’t need. Gift yourself something that will make you smile in the future. The world can be tough, and it’s easy to lose ourselves in the chaos. Remember, once a day, that you are worthy, you are present-worthy, and you deserve to be celebrated.
We All Deserve a Gift
Everyone deserves a little something special. Why? Just look around—turn on the news or observe the mess your kids made. We need those daily treats to shield ourselves from life’s frustrations, from the rude drivers to the uninvited monthly visitor.
Loving ourselves can be a challenge. Society constantly bombards us with messages of inadequacy. We find ourselves drowning in guilt over things we didn’t do or compare ourselves to others who seem to have it all figured out. But forget that. They feel just as overwhelmed as you do.
You both deserve a treat. It doesn’t have to cost much or take a lot of time, but it should be exclusively for you. Don’t plan it. Just do it. Every single day, make it a priority to give yourself a gift.
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In summary, prioritize yourself daily. Whether it’s a small indulgence or a moment of peace, you deserve it. Life is challenging, and taking time for yourself is essential.