During the holiday season, I’ve embraced the role of a “yes” mom, and honestly, it’s been an incredibly rewarding experience. Just the other night, while we were decorating the house for Christmas, my youngest suggested we order pizza and decorate the tree simultaneously. Although we had leftovers, I didn’t think twice before agreeing. I mean, how often do teenagers want to spend time with their parents, munching on pizza while festive tunes play in the background? I wasn’t going to let that opportunity slip away.
I fully acknowledge that I’m a softy during the holidays, and I don’t apologize for it. My kids are well aware of my tendency to say “yes.” From holiday treats at the grocery store—candy canes, buttery cookies, and hot cocoa with whipped cream—we indulge without hesitation. We lean into all the festive traditions: matching Christmas pajamas, neighborhood light displays, and catching every holiday movie premiere with large popcorn in hand.
When they ask to buy gifts for friends, I gladly hand over my cash; it’s amazing what you can find at the dollar spot in Target. They often request a pajama day at home right before school break, and I happily oblige. Those days are typically spent cozying up by the fireplace, doing nothing at all.
This isn’t about spoiling my kids; it’s about celebrating them. The holidays are my time to say “yes” more often than “no.” By breaking away from our usual schedule, I’m reminded to slow down and appreciate this magical season. Without these little indulgences, I might find myself racing through the holidays, checking off items on my to-do list instead of savoring the moments.
One of the biggest reasons I was eager to become a parent was to create that holiday magic I cherished in my own childhood. Now, as an adult, my kids help me relive those moments and fulfill my own desires to celebrate the season. When they ask to do something festive, my usual answer is, “Why not?”
These holiday seasons are precious but fleeting. My youngest will be 18 in just five years, and I realize our time together is limited. Soon, I’ll find myself wandering grocery store aisles alone, seeing holiday candies and missing the joy of watching my children’s hands reach for their favorites. Just thinking about that makes me feel a bit queasy.
So, I’m all in for making the most of these years while they’re still at home. I’m embracing late nights filled with sweets and movie marathons. I’ll allow them to raid the dollar spot for stocking stuffers, and I will happily stock up on eggnog and gifts. Each of these moments is a reminder to cherish our time together during the holidays.
I’m committed to going all out, even if it means putting in some extra effort. While my children may have future Christmases, none will compare to these years when we all still share a home. That’s more than enough reason for me to indulge in a little extra fun during this magical time.
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Conclusion
In summary, saying “yes” during the holidays creates cherished memories and strengthens family bonds. It’s a time for celebration, indulgence, and savoring fleeting moments together, and I wouldn’t trade it for anything.