When my partner and I discovered we were expecting our third child, we were taken aback. Just weeks earlier, we had donated the last remnants of our baby gear, convinced we had completed our family of four. How naive we were!
Our two little ones were thrilled at the prospect of a new sibling, and gradually, we began to embrace the news. However, a wave of anxiety washed over us when we realized we’d need to replace all the baby items we had just given away. Cue the chaos!
Planning for a New Arrival
With the excitement of a new arrival comes the buzz of planning—choosing names, discussing swaddling techniques, and dreaming of cute outfits. Naturally, this conversation turned to baby showers. Initially, we considered hosting a relaxed event focused solely on hand-me-downs, envisioning cherished items from friends’ children that would bring joy to our newborn.
But as our discussions progressed towards creating a registry, I recognized that my vision of an intimate gathering was morphing into something more traditional, which didn’t resonate with me. So, we scrapped the baby shower concept in favor of something more personal—a “baby sprinkle.” This informal gathering aligns with practices in Europe, where celebrations typically occur after the baby is born, allowing friends and family to meet the new addition while offering gifts for both mother and child.
Focusing on Connection
My intentions aren’t materialistic; I’m not fixated on accumulating more baby items. My partner and I have been methodically purchasing essentials like a crib, car seat, and cloth diapers, focusing on only what we truly need. As I approach the final weeks of my pregnancy, I realize that what I genuinely desire is the presence of loved ones who want to celebrate this new life with us.
The French have a wonderful tradition of welcoming a baby after birth, filled with heartfelt connections and shared joy. Instead of a focus on gifts, I envision a gathering rich in stories, laughter, and the warmth of community. Rather than onesies, I want heartfelt embraces—and maybe a few casseroles.
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Conclusion
In summary, we’re opting for a baby sprinkle rather than a traditional shower. This choice reflects our desire for connection and celebration over material gifts, creating a warm welcome for our new family member.