Once November arrives, I dive headfirst into the holiday spirit by playing Christmas music. I kick things off with timeless classics from legends like Frank Sinatra and Burl Ives, bringing back memories of my grandmother. She had this vintage wooden record player that she would dust off every December, filling the air with those beloved tunes while whipping up batches of English toffee. By the time Thanksgiving rolls around, I’m ready to switch it up to Mariah Carey and Kenny G. Thanks to streaming services, my playlist can go on forever; I even discovered Bad Religion has a Christmas album. Give it a listen!
I know my enthusiasm for Christmas music in November gets on the nerves of my coworkers and family, but honestly, I don’t mind. I adore everything about the season—the twinkling lights, the fresh pine scent, and the joy of visiting a Christmas tree farm to cut down our own tree in Oregon. I love those drive-thru parks adorned with festive lights and can’t get enough of holiday movies. Back in the day, I would watch classics like Elf or A Christmas Story even in the middle of summer, but my kids have taken over the TV. That said, once they’re off to college, those films will be back on screen in no time!
Despite the teasing I get for my early Christmas spirit, I find it hard to understand the backlash. People often tell me to turn off the holiday music or raise their eyebrows when I get excited about peppermint ice cream in October. Once, I even suggested celebrating our anniversary at a year-round Christmas hotel, and my partner looked at me like I was insane.
It seems like society has decided to shame those of us who want to bask in the magic of Christmas. I recently saw a social media post chastising stores for putting out holiday decorations too early. But honestly, why steal the joy? Research suggests that those who celebrate Christmas earlier tend to be happier. It’s harmless fun—nobody’s ever been hurt by Santa, and I’m not inviting any Krampus energy into my home. I do hold off on the Elf on the Shelf, mostly because I keep forgetting to move him, but is there ever a bad time to make a gingerbread house?
The Joy of Christmas
Christmas is a unique time of joy and goodwill, and starting the festivities a bit early is nothing to complain about. Yes, it can be commercialized and expensive, but it’s also a season of kindness and connection. I often wish we could carry that holiday spirit year-round. Honestly, if every day felt like Christmas, I wouldn’t mind at all.
So, when your colleague starts playing Christmas music, why not join in? When your partner wants to explore the holiday aisle, embrace it. If your neighbor decorates their yard before Halloween is even over, just smile and wave. And when your family goes all out with the decorations right after Thanksgiving, lend a hand instead of complaining.
Christmas is a wonderful time filled with warmth, love, and cheer. Take a moment to appreciate it rather than resist it. You might find that by letting go of your grievances towards early holiday enthusiasts, you also invite a little more joy into your life. After all, who wouldn’t want to feel that holiday magic for a bit longer?
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Summary
As November begins, many embrace the joy of Christmas early, enjoying music, decorations, and festivities that bring happiness. It’s a time of warmth and connection, and rather than shaming those who celebrate early, it’s better to join the joy and spread goodwill during this special season.