Parenting and Personal Growth
Age shouldn’t just be a number; it often comes with societal expectations and milestones that can weigh heavily on us. From the pressure of a baby’s first steps to the excitement of turning 21, life seems to be a series of checkboxes. But what happens when we reach 40? Suddenly, it feels like life is all about our children, and the notion of adventure seems to diminish. It’s time for a rewrite on this narrative.
As I approach 42, I often find myself reflecting on missed opportunities and goals that feel out of reach. Yes, I’ve had moments of panic about not achieving everything I wanted before hitting this milestone. I haven’t written that book yet, or traveled to Europe, and there are still fitness goals I haven’t conquered. Yet, I remind myself that “yet” is a powerful word.
It’s not merely age that has held me back; it’s been a lack of opportunity and self-discovery. Turning 40 doesn’t mark the end of exploration. In fact, it can be the beginning of a vibrant new chapter.
I’ve achieved many things later in life that I once thought were impossible. I got sober close to my 40th birthday and underwent gender-affirming surgery after coming out as nonbinary. While I might feel like an “old-timer” compared to younger individuals going through similar experiences, I recognize that this journey has shaped me. I’m also starting fresh in a long-distance relationship, embracing love and uncertainty in ways I never thought possible.
Just because you haven’t ticked off every item on your bucket list doesn’t mean you can’t create new opportunities. You can still experience pregnancy, divorce, or start a new relationship. You can express your true self through fashion, embark on a new career, or go back to school. The possibilities are endless.
Our curiosity doesn’t fade with age. You’re never too old to learn something new—whether it’s driving, swimming, or even trying out yoga. You can explore cooking, scuba diving, or running a marathon.
We also need to grant ourselves the right to feel youthful and attractive. Aging doesn’t imply deterioration; it can lead to better self-understanding and confidence. As I near 42, I appreciate my body more than I did a decade ago. Yes, society places pressure on women to conform to certain beauty standards, but we should prioritize what brings us joy instead of chasing impossible ideals.
There are countless experiences waiting for you after 40, many of which are often more fulfilling than they would have been at a younger age. The key is to stop worrying about age and ignore the stigmas that suggest we can’t fully live our lives after this milestone.
Remember, the journey is uniquely yours. You may not be where you thought you would be, but that’s perfectly okay. As long as you’re open to new experiences, you’ll find that life can be just as exciting and fulfilling at 40 and beyond.
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In summary, turning 40 opens up new avenues for growth and exploration. It’s a time to embrace the experiences that shape who you are and to pursue what truly makes you happy.