You may have come across various essays discussing the roles of mothers from different perspectives. While some voices may not fully resonate with the experience of motherhood, I’d like to share my own insights as a proud Supermom!
As a dedicated parent, my goal is to nurture my children while being actively present in their lives—and that’s perfectly acceptable. Juggling work and family, we Supermoms manage to accomplish it all. Picture this: I brew coffee, whip up breakfast, help my kids get dressed, manage a sip of lukewarm coffee, hop in the shower, and then back to reality—wiping a child’s bottom, grabbing a cold sip of coffee, and somehow managing to reheat it. Getting dressed, brushing my teeth, tossing in a load of laundry, changing my shirt after a toothpaste mishap, and preparing lunches all happen in a whirlwind of activity, alongside ensuring the kids get to school. Meanwhile, my husband enjoys a hot cup of coffee—courtesy of my morning efforts—while cozying up in the bathroom with the news.
I’m fortunate to have a supportive partner who values my choices and shares responsibilities at home. However, when he recently suffered an injury that limited his mobility, I quickly realized the extent of my own responsibilities. For thirty days, I took charge of everything—cooking, cleaning, and caring for the kids—after a full day’s work and a lengthy commute. His absence highlighted how crucial teamwork is in parenting, as I felt the weight of exhaustion from managing it all alone.
The traditional view of a man as the sole provider and protector doesn’t encompass the reality that many mothers face today. Single mothers, for instance, embody the Supermom spirit daily. One of my close friends has been running her household solo for years while her husband serves overseas. She’s the one changing lightbulbs, assembling toys on Christmas Eve, and tackling household repairs. Another friend, a teenage mother, balanced her job while raising her two kids alone and pursued her education online, earning both her bachelor’s and master’s degrees. These women are true Supermoms.
It’s completely fine to enjoy cooking and caring for my family. I often find joy in preparing meals, sharing laughter over dinner, and creating cherished moments with my kids. One morning, when my youngest asked about leadership, I explained that both men and women can lead—just like his dad and me. I strive to instill in my boys the belief that men and women are equals, reinforcing that their dad can cook, clean, and be an active participant in their lives.
The progress we’ve made over the past generations is significant, and I am grateful to have the freedom to make choices about my life and my family. This balance enriches our lives and sets a positive example for my children.
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In summary, the journey of a Supermom is multifaceted, filled with both challenges and joys. We embrace our roles, balancing work and family life, all while setting an example for the next generation.