By: Lila Johnson
Updated: Feb. 25, 2020
From an early age, most of us have encountered the relentless pressure of societal standards regarding women’s bodies. It’s exhausting. The media, family, and friends often bombard us with diet culture propaganda, showcasing extreme weight loss journeys, celebrity “comebacks” post-baby, and tips on how to dress in a way that makes us appear smaller than we are.
However, thanks to influential figures like Maya Rivera, Jordan Lee, and Tessa Thompson, along with a growing number of social media advocates who champion body positivity and self-acceptance, we are finally beginning to shift the narrative. The message is clear: it’s time to love our bodies, no matter their size.
Let’s face it; we still have a long way to go. The Confessional is filled with stories of self-doubt and body loathing, but there’s also a surge of uplifting confessions celebrating self-love.
Breaking free from self-criticism is tough, especially when the origins of that negativity stem from our upbringing. Yet, we are making strides to silence those inner voices and shield the next generation from the same struggles.
Confessions of Self-Love
Confessional #1012345
“I’m learning to appreciate my soft, round belly. My partner is working on a body-positive project and finds me attractive, yet my mom still tries to push me back into my old eating disorder habits from college.”
Confessional #21817417
“Moms who brag about their daughters’ thinness have a special place reserved in Hell.”
We are beginning to recognize that health can exist at any size. It’s refreshing to see confessions like:
Confessional #1715569
“I’m overweight but healthy. It’s possible to be both, and I’d rather be happy and healthy than skinny and miserable.”
Confessional #22868576
“I just had cookies and milk for dinner because I was too tired to deal with another boring chicken breast. I’m done with diet culture.”
Confessional #25608793
“I stopped dieting, and now I eat what I want without obsessing about food every minute. I don’t restrict myself anymore. Screw diet culture—I’m enjoying real food and living my life.”
It’s time we acknowledge that we should have embraced our bodies ages ago.
Confessional #25763374
“I wish I had appreciated my old body more. I starved myself for that ideal, and people were okay with it as long as I looked good. Now, I enjoy eating like a normal person.”
Confessional #25761186
“At 33, I’ve vowed to never diet again. Sure, I could be a certain weight, but why? For the approval of others? Absolutely not. My New Year’s resolution is to love myself as I am.”
Confessional #25753345
“I used to despise my body because media made me believe that if I didn’t have certain features, I was worthless. I wish I knew then how false that was.”
Celebrating Our Bodies
And let’s talk about the so-called “bounce back” after having kids. Our bodies are incredible. They’ve brought life into this world, and we should celebrate the transformations that come with it.
Confessional #1700195
“I’m 220 lbs with a C-section scar, and I feel sexy at work. I get attention, and the jealousy from others only boosts my confidence.”
Confessional #10735545
“I’ve never felt more beautiful than after giving birth. Our bodies are meant to do extraordinary things; there’s no shame in that.”
Confessional #1448046
“My body has scars and stretch marks, but it’s given me children and the joy of intimacy. I love it!”
Confessional #1774506
“I may weigh more than ever after having twins, but I’m happy and at peace with my body. I’ve learned to appreciate its strength.”
So let these empowering confessions remind us that we are far more than a number on a scale. Our value is not tied to our weight or appearance. We no longer need to apologize for how we look—what matters most is how we feel about ourselves.
Confessional #25759965
“People who proudly post full-body photos are my kind of people—authentic and unashamed.”
Confessional #12345678
“I know I’m beautiful and sexy. Sure, I’m fat and nearing 50, but that’s their loss if they can’t see it.”
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In summary, this journey towards self-acceptance and body positivity is ongoing. We are transforming the conversation about our bodies, embracing who we are at any size, and rejecting the harmful narratives of the past.