Embracing My College Years: A Journey Through Freedom and Exploration

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I was that college girl who embraced her sexuality. You know the type. I had a few steady boyfriends for short spells, but I lost count of my partners—probably around twenty. And let’s not even talk about the number of times I gave blowjobs; it’s too high to remember! So if you’re here to judge, just know I had an incredible time. My only regret? Not hooking up with two of my friends, who I still cherish. We often joke about it, reminiscing about our college days. “I always thought we’d end up together,” I once teased a friend. “Me too!” she laughed.

The truth is, I lived in a dorm full of quirky kids—drama enthusiasts, artists, and the LGBTQ+ community. In this haven, I found freedom; no one shamed me for my choices. Most knew about my escapades and simply didn’t care. We even played a game where we’d connect people based on their sexual encounters, reminiscent of the six degrees of Kevin Bacon, but with a twist. If you could link someone to a guy named J., you were in the clear since he’d been with nearly everyone!

I Fully Embraced My Sexuality

I was bold enough to take four “v-cards.” On one occasion, while dating someone I didn’t want to cheat on, I snuck into his bathroom and wrote “Too bad I can’t hook up with you” in soap on his mirror before slipping out. At a party that turned into an unforgettable orgy, I partook in lots of makeouts and partner-switching. I even had multiple threesomes, although I was furious to discover one of my partners was engaged. I still feel guilty about that!

Remember that line from Clerks where Dante says, “Try not to suck any dick on your way through the parking lot!”? Yep, that was me.

I had one-night stands, relationships that fizzled, and even an affair with my resident advisor (who was definitely off-limits). We got caught in an art classroom, and it was wild. I was unapologetically adventurous—and I loved every moment.

Grateful for My Experiences

Miraculously, I never contracted an STD or faced an unplanned pregnancy. I was diligent about asking about testing and was always careful with birth control. For five years—including my first year of grad school—I enjoyed consequence-free, thrilling sexual encounters. I wore Catholic school uniforms, explored with toys, and even tried bondage.

Growing up in a strict Catholic household where sex was shunned made my college experience even more liberating. Our sex education was limited to “this is how babies are made,” and the idea of waiting until marriage. My parents never confronted me about my escapades, choosing instead to ignore the elephant in the room. Once I found my freedom, I sought out friends who shared my views—people who were either as adventurous as I was or eager to be. No one judged me; they joined the fun instead.

Settled and Happy After Two Decades

Not long after my wild days, I met my husband during my second year of grad school. We’ve been together ever since, and I’ve never strayed. My past experiences made me quite skilled in bed, something he appreciates.

What I miss the most isn’t the wildness itself, but the youthful spirit of those days—the joy of being free to explore, sitting in the dorm hallway connecting people by their histories. Yes, I was a “slut,” but I was also just a young person immersing herself in the possibilities of life.

Now, I’m content and happily settled with an incredible partner who understands me deeply. While the thrill of casual encounters was exciting, nothing compares to the joy of a committed relationship. The passion still exists but in a different form—a rush when he walks in from work, excitement when he surprises me with a thoughtful gift, and a profound connection built over time.

I’m grateful for both my past and present. I cherished my youthful adventures and now embrace the stability and love I’ve found.

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Summary:

This article reflects on the author’s vibrant college years filled with sexual exploration and freedom. With a focus on having fun without shame, the narrative captures the joy of youthful experiences while contrasting them with the stability and love found in a committed relationship later in life.