A few years back, I went through a phase where skirts dominated my wardrobe. As a tomboy in my youth, I leaned towards t-shirts and jeans, but in my late 20s, I felt compelled—likely influenced by social media—to embrace a more traditional feminine aesthetic. I started wearing skirts, blouses, and heels, striving to embody the conventional notion of “pretty.”
Initially, I enjoyed it. Feeling pretty and feminine was nice. However, I soon realized that I felt like a fraud. Compliments on my outfits and the length of my hair—because short hair isn’t deemed feminine—did little to change the nagging feeling of being out of place. Even though my husband appreciated the change, something still felt off.
Rediscovering My True Self
Since becoming a parent, I have rediscovered my authentic self. My true self sports a daringly short, vibrantly red hairstyle, often styled into a faux hawk during the summer. I gravitate towards blue jeans and black tank tops, even if they accentuate my pale complexion. I opt for bold eye makeup, disregarding the trendy “no-makeup” look. My preference leans towards knee-high black boots instead of heels. Most importantly, I reject anyone’s notion of how I should look or behave simply because of my gender.
Embracing my identity makes me feel like a badass. This transformation in appearance—my hairstyle, fashion choices, and makeup—empowers me. When I feel fierce, I feel strong and confident. Looking good boosts my mood, which in turn positively affects my interactions with my husband, children, family, and friends.
Becoming Unapologetically Me
I can’t definitively claim to be a badass, but when I embrace that feeling, I believe I’m the most incredible woman around. I’m not suggesting you should abandon dresses and heels altogether. Instead, I encourage you to pursue whatever makes you feel authentically you. It’s essential to connect with your inner warrior, capable of taking on the world, managing your household, and being your best self. For me, that means rocking a red faux hawk; for you, it might be something entirely different. Whatever it is, embrace it without shame or concern for societal judgment. Life is too short to waste on conforming to others’ expectations.
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Conclusion
In summary, the journey of motherhood has led me to embrace my true self, shedding societal expectations to feel empowered and authentic. Be bold, be unapologetic, and most importantly, be a badass.