This year, I’ve made a firm decision: I’m stepping back from the chaos of holiday shopping. No more squeezing through crowded malls or staying up late hunting for the best deals. I refuse to compare my holiday plans to others, whether it’s the number of Christmas trees they display or the latest toys they purchase. I won’t go into debt just to buy my kids the latest fad.
My children don’t need an excess of plastic toys or sugary treats this holiday season. They don’t require every trending gadget or toy. More importantly, I don’t want to feel overwhelmed by the clutter that comes with trying to ensure they have “enough.” I’ve learned through 14 holiday seasons as a parent that the more they receive, the more overwhelmed they become. This leads to meltdowns and dissatisfaction, which ultimately dampens the holiday spirit for everyone involved.
While it can be tempting to get swept up in the holiday frenzy, I’m determined to focus on what truly matters. I want to create meaningful experiences rather than chase after material possessions. This year, I’m gifting my family a more relaxed and joyful holiday by being intentional about our activities.
Instead of succumbing to the pressure to create a perfect holiday, we’re going to prioritize experiences that will hold lasting memories. We’ll be donating to local food pantries during both Thanksgiving and Christmas, as well as contributing to animal shelters and St. Jude Children’s Hospital. Together, we’ll select gifts from our local country store for those in need—an activity that has warmed our hearts since my kids were young.
Crafting will be on our agenda, too! We may not produce Pinterest-perfect projects, but the joy of creating together is what matters. We’re also planning to take evening drives to admire Christmas lights, something I’ve previously skipped due to being “too busy.” This year, I’m committed to making time for these simple pleasures, complete with hot cocoa in hand.
Baking is another cherished tradition. I’ll be revisiting family recipes to make cookies that my mother used to bake for us. We’ll package them up to share with friends and family, spreading warmth and love through our treats.
And, of course, we’ll indulge in holiday movies in our pajamas, savoring popcorn and eggnog while laughing at our favorites. I know that a few well-chosen gifts will mean more than a pile of things that may go unused.
If my kids wish to give their friends gifts, we’ll create something special together. I have a Pinterest board filled with ideas, and I’m excited to bring those to life.
This year, we’ll focus on togetherness rather than material goods. Our holiday won’t be filled with endless gift-opening sessions; instead, we’ll find joy in giving, sharing, and creating memories that truly matter. True happiness is found not in gifts, but in the love we share and the time spent with family.
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Summary
This holiday season, I am prioritizing minimalism by stepping back from the commercial frenzy. Instead of focusing on material gifts, I am dedicating time to meaningful experiences with my family—donating, crafting, baking, and enjoying each other’s company. This approach not only reduces stress but enriches our holiday spirit.