The sheer volume of toys accumulated by my 19-month-old is staggering. Toys have infiltrated every corner of our home, from plush animals scattered in the living room to a play kitchen dominating the kitchen space, and even toys left behind in the guest room—they’re virtually everywhere.
My little one has amassed so many toys that she hardly notices when a few go missing; the abundance is simply overwhelming. It takes every ounce of restraint not to declutter on a daily basis. Thus, we’ve decided to embrace a “Toy-Free Christmas” this year.
Not a Grinch, Just Practical
I cherish Christmas—the joy of giving, the traditions, and the enchanting spirit of the season. I am no Scrooge. However, I’ve reached a point where I find it necessary to communicate to family that we’re opting out of toy gifts this year.
Her toy box resembles an erupting volcano, filled with items that have never even been played with. In truth, my daughter prefers rummaging through my Tupperware drawer over her actual toys. This irony is laughable, and it underscores my decision to ask loved ones not to spend their hard-earned money on more toys that will ultimately gather dust.
Gifts Beyond Toys
Instead of toys—excuse my language—useless junk that won’t capture her interest, I would love gifts that are more meaningful. Here are some ideas for a “No Toy Christmas”:
- A family pass to the aquarium, allowing us to explore aquatic life together. Imagine the joy of wandering through exhibits, enjoying the trails, and maybe even giving Mom and Dad a much-needed break by taking the kids yourself one day.
- I am always grateful for books or educational gifts. My daughter is a fan of Angelina Ballerina, and anything Elmo is a hit. I also rely on flashcards that have helped her learn new words.
- Classic movies are timeless treasures. This year, we’re eyeing classics like Beauty and the Beast, The Princess and the Frog, and The Lion King.
- Clothes are welcome gifts! Kids outgrow them in no time, so they are always a practical choice.
- Finally, I wholeheartedly support outdoor play. Gifts like bikes, wagons, chalk, or a water table will surely be cherished and utilized.
Above all, the most precious gifts are the experiences we create together. Children may forget the toys you buy, but they will always remember the moments spent together—like when Grandma took her to the Nutcracker or the adventures you shared at a theme park or a baseball game. These experiences are what truly last a lifetime, not material possessions.
This Holiday Season
I aim for my children to grow up surrounded by love and lasting memories, not an overwhelming collection of toys. Instead of filling the tree with more toys, I’m committed to providing what they truly need and creating memories that endure.
While we set cookies for Santa, hang stockings, and read stories like The Nightmare Before Christmas, I eagerly anticipate my daughter experiencing her second Christmas. What excites me most is knowing she’ll receive gifts that foster lasting memories—books, adventures, and meaningful experiences.
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Summary
This year, we’re opting for a “No Toy Christmas” to avoid the overwhelming clutter of toys and instead focus on meaningful experiences and gifts that foster memories. By choosing experiences over material items, we aim to cultivate a loving and memorable holiday season for our children.