The sheer volume of paperwork accumulated over the 18 years of raising a child could likely be compressed into a mass so dense that scientists would have to convene to decide if it merits planetary classification. Imagine launching this mountain of documents into solar orbit, terraforming it, and when humanity faces extinction, dispatching a small colony to Planet Paper to ensure our survival. Yes, the paperwork from parenting is that extensive. I’m not even remotely exaggerating. It’s more ever-present than the air we breathe.
This avalanche of documents begins long before the baby arrives. Picture yourself struggling through contractions at the hospital registration desk while nurses (are they out of their minds?) hand you forms that will mark the inception of your child’s bureaucratic existence, akin to the first volume of an encyclopedia.
Before you leave the hospital, you’ll fill out 20 more pages, signing off on various procedures, acknowledging privacy policies, and agreeing to remain until you’ve “evacuated your bowels.” Finally, exhausted and under the influence of pain medication, you’re wheeled out, cradling your newborn in one arm and a stack of paperwork in the other that weighs more than the baby. These documents reference future forms you must remember to submit to the Social Security Administration and other essential agencies that I can’t even recall because my youngest is now 6. But I’m convinced that had I not completed all that paperwork, the earth would have opened up, swallowing her whole, leaving no trace of her existence. At the very least, she would be legally nameless—a nightmare scenario.
By this point, you’ve already amassed a filing cabinet’s worth of documents, and your perineal stitches haven’t even healed.
For stay-at-home parents, after the initial hospital escapade and registering your child with the government, there’s a brief respite—unless your child requires daycare. If that’s the case, I offer my deepest condolences. Not due to daycare itself—kudos to working parents!—but because of the mountain of paperwork that comes with it.
You’ll need proof of vaccinations, emergency contacts, and the complete life histories of both parents (including addresses, phone numbers, and possibly even future aspirations). Then, there are the daily art projects that come home, each one adding to the paperwork pile. By the time your child turns three, you could fill a filing cabinet and two under-bed storage boxes. At this point, getting to your refrigerator might require heavy machinery.
And then comes kindergarten. I envision arriving at my children’s school being swept up in a whirlwind of paper, much like Helen Hunt in Twister, desperately clinging to a flagpole outside the administrative offices to avoid being lifted into the sky by a tornado of forms. It’s overwhelming—there are yet more forms to complete, reminders for important dates, login details for various educational sites, permission slips, and a seemingly endless stream of paperwork for medical visits and registration waivers. And let’s not forget the worksheets and art projects we’ve all agreed to toss at least 90% of, right?
Every day feels like a battle against a relentless tide of paperwork, and we’ve only scratched the surface up to kindergarten.
Why does no one prepare you for the deluge of parental paperwork that takes over your life? It leads to carpal tunnel syndrome, and your car keys vanish beneath the mountains of documents on the kitchen counter. It literally cuts you—yes, like it’s alive and plotting against you. It lurks in corners and under beds, transforming your home into a chaotic mess and shattering any illusions you had of a picture-perfect living space. Even when you attempt to recycle it, the paper overwhelms your bin, forcing you to make agonizing decisions about what to discard.
I have two children, and I can’t fathom how parents with more than two manage this chaos. I salute you; I bow to you (not that you can see or hear me from beneath that mountain of paperwork). Should I fetch my backhoe?
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In summary, the paperwork of parenthood is a monumental undertaking, one that can easily consume your life and clutter your home, leaving you to wonder how you’ve arrived at such a chaotic juncture.