As I lay awake tonight, a restless feeling settled in. My thoughts wandered over the events of the day, drifting through names and faces until one of my children, snug in bed upstairs, took center stage in my mind. Yes, that’s it—she’s the one keeping me up tonight.
I reflected on the challenging moments we shared, the sharp words exchanged, and I found myself praying for her. And for me, too. Just the night before, I found myself lost in thoughts about the staggering costs of college, staying up late to contemplate the future. Two nights prior, I struggled to sleep due to a tension headache, my mind racing with an endless to-do list. And the week before, it was the flu that had my little one wheezing through the night, leaving me to keep a vigilant watch.
A notepad rests beside my bed, filled each morning with reminders—some worries, a prayer, a task to tackle. This morning’s note simply read: “Call the dentist. Remind son to lay off the chips.”
Every phase of motherhood brings its own unique challenges, yet the feelings of worry, doubt, and the relentless exhaustion remain constant. We pour our hearts into this journey. We love fiercely. As we look ahead to our endless to-do lists—grocery shopping, cleaning, holiday preparations—it’s easy to feel overwhelmed.
Exhaustion sets in—not just the kind that a day in bed could cure, but a deep, bone-weary fatigue. Can you relate? The chaos of endless laundry, dishes, and demands can be suffocating. Some days, we may simply need permission to step away from the worry, the fear, and the unknown. To take a break. To say no. To focus on ourselves for a moment and set down the weight we carry.
So here it is. You have permission to rest, to breathe, to reflect. We can strive for a picture-perfect holiday season or embrace the idea that perfection is indeed overrated. As we prepare for gatherings, cooking, and spending time with family and friends, let’s not forget to include ourselves on that list.
We know how to give. We offer our children the last cookie, we share our warm hoodie when they feel chilly, and we often shiver through it all. Giving thanks can sometimes feel like just another task on our list, another demand. This week, take a moment for yourself. Prop up your feet, trade your worries for peace, and remind yourself that you are doing a great job as a mom.
Happy Thanksgiving to you all.
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Summary
This heartfelt message addresses the struggles and exhaustion faced by mothers, reminding them to take time for themselves amidst the chaos of parenting and holiday preparations. It emphasizes the importance of self-care and offers links to helpful resources for those exploring home insemination and fertility tips.