There are moments when I might come across as a bit of a nag — let’s just call it a gentle reminder. You have this remarkable knack for walking by the trash can when it’s overflowing, and the laundry hamper seems to go unnoticed even when it’s just a few steps away from your pile of clothes. Empty glasses seem to multiply around the house, and your “to-do” list only seems to grow (remember that landscaping project you began… three years ago?).
However, in the grand scheme of life, these little annoyances pale in comparison to what really matters. I sometimes get so caught up in the day-to-day minutiae — failing to see the bigger picture — that I forget to express my gratitude for all the things you do right.
What I Truly Value
What I truly value most is the kind of father you are. If I could have designed the perfect dad for our kids, my wish list would have been extensive. First and foremost, I’d ask for boundless patience, especially during those long hours of middle school math homework (if only we could understand that subject ourselves). I’d wish for someone who is eager to share his wisdom and experiences, always ready to turn his schedule upside down just to be there for them. I’d want him to be a role model, showcasing kindness — like turning the car around to give his coat to a needy veteran, volunteering at local shelters, or helping a stranger with a flat tire. And let’s not forget the essential dad jokes that are a rite of passage for all fathers.
While I didn’t get to customize my wish, I struck gold with you. You’re firm when necessary, even though I know you dislike it. Yet, our kids can sense the soft-heartedness beneath your exterior. They are fully aware that you would go to any lengths to ensure their safety and happiness. You prioritize family time, constantly finding new activities for us to enjoy together.
Lessons Learned
You impart lessons both big and small, from how to bait a hook to treating others with respect and working hard for what you want. You assure them they can achieve anything, and your pride in them is genuine. You are their staunchest supporter, their protector, and the one who helps them navigate everything from broken bikes to broken hearts.
Like any devoted parent, my wish is for the best for our children. And honestly, I couldn’t ask for a greater gift — for them, and for myself — than the father you are. There’s nothing more heartwarming than watching you interact with our kids, pride and love radiating from your face. It’s priceless to know that they receive the same unwavering love from you that I feel for them.
Gratitude for Our Family
We often forget to appreciate the best parts of our lives. There are parents who must face the challenges alone, and children who grow up with absent or harmful fathers. I will always remember how fortunate we are. I’ll continue to steal glimpses of you being the dad our kids need — whether that’s being fun, firm, or supportive — and my heart swells with gratitude each time.
So, while your socks may never find their way to the hamper and you sometimes forget to rinse the sink after shaving, I can look past those minor details. Because tolerating these quirks is a small price to pay for the immense value you bring as a father.
With love,
Sarah
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