Tonight was a special bedtime routine. As I pulled down your cheerful polka dot shade and dressed you in your cozy pajamas, we sang our favorite lullaby, “Twinkle, Twinkle.” Yet, this evening carried a weight unlike any other. I felt as if I was lifting a mountain because, my dear child, we are making a big change.
This is the last time I’ll say, “I will see you in the morning,” as I close this door, a door that has seen so many cherished moments: your first night at home, the excitement of your first Christmas, and the day you slept independently for the first time. Tonight marks the end of our time living together as a family under one roof. I need to share something difficult with you: Mom and Dad will no longer be living together. I’m truly sorry for this.
When I shut the door and you called out for “Daddy,” my heart felt heavy too. I’ve spent many sleepless nights trying to find the right words to explain this to you in a way that makes sense without causing you worry. I want you to know that both your parents love you deeply and are only a short distance apart. It’s hard to admit, but I sometimes feel like we’ve failed as a family, though I know that’s not entirely true.
While it may seem that we have let you down, the bigger picture tells a different story. We haven’t failed because you, my sweet child, are the reason we will always strive to be better. Understand that this decision was made out of love—for everyone involved—because we all deserve a life filled with happiness, peace, and respect. It’s essential for me to show you what genuine love looks like, not a façade that merely keeps up with the standards set by others, like the Kardashians or the Joneses. It’s crucial we remain authentic, and sometimes that means making tough choices to improve our lives.
Who we are as individuals shapes who we are as parents. I promise to be the best version of myself for you. I want you to learn from my example that doing what’s right may not always be the easiest path. Always remember that you should never accept a situation that doesn’t honor who you are and what you deserve.
Goodnight, my sweet boy. May your dreams be filled with the innocent joys of childhood, whether you find yourself asleep at Mom’s or Dad’s house. Love surrounds you, no matter where you rest your head.
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In summary, this heartfelt message reflects the challenges of explaining a family change to a toddler, emphasizing love and support throughout the transition.