It’s that time of year again—IEP season. This is the moment when sleepless nights and anxious days culminate in a 30- to 45-minute meeting that will shape your child’s educational path for the next year. You find yourself sitting at a table surrounded by teachers, therapists, and psychologists, all of whom seem to think they know your child’s needs better than you. It’s a challenge to keep your composure while you navigate the complexities of ensuring your child receives the educational support they deserve.
I want you to remember that you are not alone; I’m right there with you. I understand your frustration when it feels like no one truly hears you, even though they might be listening. Like you, I’ve held back tears as they list my child’s struggles while providing little in the way of constructive support. I’m your inner voice urging you to stay calm, reminding you that being strong and assertive doesn’t mean you need to raise your voice. My palms are sweaty, my heart races, and the question “Am I doing enough?” echoes in my mind just like yours.
You are doing enough. You are a warrior and an advocate in a way that many parents may not comprehend. Dismiss the dismissive comments you might hear—when someone says, “What’s the big deal? It’s just a meeting,” know that it is a significant event, and only those who have experienced it can grasp its importance. I, too, sometimes feel isolated, as if my friends can’t quite relate to my struggles in this journey.
Do you realize how incredibly strong you are? You are your child’s most essential advocate, educator, therapist, and psychologist—wearing many hats daily to ensure their success. While the educators at that table may overlook this, I recognize your invaluable efforts. You are a force to be reckoned with!
You are there to ensure your child receives the support they are legally entitled to, allowing them to thrive in the least restrictive environment. When your child flourishes, I celebrate alongside you; when they stumble, I silently share your pain. IEP Mom, you are a rock, a true hero.
So, walk into that meeting with confidence, armed with your paperwork and well-rehearsed arguments. This is just another battle in the ongoing war for your child’s education. And remember, I’m in a similar meeting, just a town or state away.
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In summary, you’re not alone in your IEP journey. You are stronger than you know, and your advocacy is crucial for your child’s success.