I recently experienced a significant change in my career—I was laid off. As I prepare to update my resume and begin reaching out to potential employers, I find myself in a unique situation. I am six months pregnant and also the mother of an energetic 2-year-old son.
My initial reaction was a blend of confusion and anxiety. Who would want to hire a pregnant woman who is about to immerse herself in the chaos of diapers and late-night feedings? It’s daunting to think about being a new employee when my mind is preoccupied with preparing for a new baby. I fully understand why I might not be seen as the ideal candidate.
While I am aware of the legal protections regarding pregnancy disclosure, it feels insincere to omit this significant part of my life during the job search. If asked about my skills and interests, I would happily share my professional achievements, but I would also want to discuss my newfound abilities in juggling prenatal appointments and activities around my toddler’s schedule. My passion for motherhood is something I cherish, and it’s equally important to acknowledge that as I transition into a new role.
Despite the distractions and challenges, I am confident in my capabilities as an employee. I take pride in my work and strive to excel in my field. However, I must admit that my current state leaves little room for the demands of a new job. The reality is, I am preparing to nurture two lives, and that takes precedence in my mind.
However, life doesn’t always play fair. My husband and I have financial obligations that require me to seek employment now. The reality of bills piling up makes it clear that I need to find a job, regardless of whether it aligns perfectly with my current circumstances. I have always envisioned myself as a working mother, and I genuinely enjoy the dual role. I thrive in environments where I can balance family life with my professional ambitions, such as analyzing marketing trends and brainstorming innovative strategies.
As I consider the possibility of taking a break to focus on family before diving back into the job market, I find myself drawn back to the urgency of the situation. The bills are constant reminders that waiting may not be an option. So, what’s a busy, expectant mom to do? I’ll start by enjoying a cup of decaf coffee and refreshing a resume that hasn’t seen updates in years. I plan to highlight my skills as an “excellent multitasker,” someone who “maintains composure under pressure,” and “effectively manages challenging situations,” all of which I’ve honed as a mother.
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In summary, while my circumstance may seem challenging, I am determined to embrace both my roles as a mother and a professional as I embark on this new journey.