Yes, I affectionately refer to you as “little one.” No matter how tall you grow, you will always be that precious bundle I brought home from the hospital, the one who let out a loud cry as soon as you needed to eat. You were the baby I carried close to my heart, the one your father teased me about hogging because I craved every moment of closeness. Even when you were a tiny, red, somewhat awkward little creature, you were still the cutest potato in my eyes.
Why do I feel this way?
Because I am your mother. Always remember this important truth: I labored for two whole days before bringing you into the world. I pushed something the size of a rather large watermelon through a place that, while flexible, isn’t exactly made for that. The pain was intense; I tore so badly that I spent an hour being stitched up—all while blissfully holding you in my arms. In that moment, all pain, blood, and screaming faded away. So don’t dwell on the hardships; instead, recognize that every woman you encounter has their own story of sacrifice. You don’t owe me anything, my love; you owe it to the universe.
I may drop the occasional “damn” or “hell” — remnants of my younger days — but don’t replicate my mistakes. I wasted too much time in college chasing after boys instead of focusing on my studies or engaging in worthwhile experiences. Trust me, that lifestyle can get dull quickly. Instead, prioritize your education, because that’s what you’re investing in.
Embrace Life’s Adventures
But don’t feel pressured to conform. It’s perfectly fine to bend the rules occasionally. Maybe indulge in some harmless mischief—like borrowing a road cone or having a laugh with friends over cheap beer. Better yet, enjoy those moments around a bonfire under the stars.
Make connections with diverse groups of people. Host a costume party with all the fun elements you can think of. Befriend individuals from different backgrounds, and savor their native dishes. Most importantly, listen to their stories. Become a global citizen early on, so you don’t have to grapple with complex issues later in life.
Stand Firm in Your Beliefs
Form your own beliefs based on your experiences. Stand firm in your convictions. Protect those who are vulnerable, support the oppressed, and always lend a helping hand. When you can, give change to those in need; I don’t care what others think. My word as your mother is to be generous when you can. It’s not about how they use the money; it’s about sharing what you have.
Let me share a true story: I fell in love with three remarkable men because they listened to others and showed kindness. One of them is your Uncle Max, who was deeply cherished by your father and stood beside us on our wedding day. The other was your dad.
Never Overlook the Unseen
Above all, my dear, never overlook those whom society tends to forget. Learn the names of your janitor and their family, greet the store clerks, and treat waitstaff with the respect they deserve. Remember to tip generously.
Also, be mindful of your actions. When you drop trash or misplace items, remember that someone has to clean up after you. Your upbringing taught you better. Acknowledge the unseen labor of others and do your part to lighten their load.
Preparing for Parenthood
Wait until you’re truly ready before bringing a dog into your life. Caring for a pet can be great preparation for parenthood. Make sure to train your pup well; socialize them and teach them to be kind to children. It might feel like ages away, but that dog will be there when you welcome your first baby home.
That baby will cry for nourishment, much like you once did. Your partner will be there to help, and the dog will watch curiously. You’ll ask your significant other if they need anything, showing the kindness you learned.
Choose Kindness
You came into this world amidst a whirlwind of love and chaos. So will your child. For all the moments of labor and the joy of holding your newborn, we must extend kindness to one another.
Above all, my dear, always choose kindness.
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In summary, embrace kindness, forge meaningful relationships, and be aware of the efforts of others. Life is a journey of learning and growing, and every interaction counts.