Thank You for Being My Lifelong Friend
Some friendships come and go while others last a season or two. We have the childhood friends, the college pals we shared laughs with, and the mothers who supported us through the chaotic early days of parenting. Then there are the office buddies we share lunch gossip with and the neighbors we wave at from a distance. But then, there’s you and me.
We’ve been friends for what feels like forever. As time has passed and other friendships have drifted away, we remain inseparable. Thank goodness for that. Despite life becoming busier and more intricate, and friendship maintenance becoming a challenge compared to our carefree days, you are still my go-to person. You always have been and always will be.
We are besties because I don’t feel the need to tidy up before your visit. You don’t judge me for the crumbs on my kitchen counter or the faint odor that lingers in my bathroom. You overlook the dust bunnies and streaky windows, just as I do at your place. We do, however, notice the new decor (from Target, of course!) and that adorable photo of us displayed on your mantle.
We are the best of friends because we can be completely awkward together without it feeling, well, awkward. Small talk isn’t our thing; we prefer texting over phone calls. We find ourselves in fits of laughter when someone trips and can sit side by side, scrolling through social media or answering emails, completely at ease in each other’s company.
We’re best friends because we allow ourselves to be vulnerable around each other. We’ve seen each other at our most exposed, sharing dressing room opinions on swimsuits and holding each other’s hair back during moments of… discomfort. From sharing bras to navigating life’s challenges, we’ve truly been through it all together.
Even when disagreements arise or feelings get hurt, we forgive quickly because we understand the goodness within each other. Our parenting philosophies may differ—like breastfeeding and the importance of cutting grapes—but we both value giving our kids the freedom to be themselves. When our families gather, we often shoo the kids away just so we can catch up in peace.
Our friendship thrives on sarcasm and humor—yours being witty banter while I lean more towards the expletives. We believe in assuming the best in people and giving everyone a fair chance.
We’ve stood by each other through breakups, moves, and sickness without missing a beat. We’ve cried until we laughed and vice versa (which has led to a few unexpected accidents). Our tastes in entertainment may differ, but we bond over pop culture gossip. Thanks to you, I’m now a fan of Parks and Recreation, and I introduced you to Schitt’s Creek. We still share inside jokes from our favorite shows.
We trust each other with our deepest secrets and have celebrated life’s milestones together, from engagements to new pregnancies. We’ve even snuck in drinks during hospital visits. The late-night calls and lengthy text conversations have solidified our bond through every twist and turn.
I’ve pondered what makes a friendship endure, and I believe it boils down to a blend of respect, familiarity, and a sprinkle of magic. There’s a reason we clicked and why our friendship remains strong—it’s a tapestry of countless tiny threads intertwined to create something beautiful.
Even if we go days or weeks without seeing each other, whenever we reunite, it feels like home. Friendship can be messy and complicated (just like any relationship), but we’ve stuck together because we care about each other, and let’s be honest, we both know too much about one another to walk away.
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In summary, our friendship has been a journey filled with laughter, vulnerability, and unwavering support. It’s a bond that transcends time and circumstances, and I cherish every moment we share.