It was one of those mornings. My son, Jake, cried out, his voice echoing in the quiet of our home. We usually keep our voices calm, so I felt like the villain in a drama. Once I dried his tears and we settled down, I explained, “I really just want to keep you safe, sweetheart.” He sniffled and resumed eating his waffle.
I know, deep down, that I can’t protect Jake from every potential mishap in life—not even close. But I often wish he would just listen to me so I could save him from some of those inevitable scrapes.
That’s the challenge, isn’t it? Kids don’t always heed warnings. Sometimes they forget your advice in the heat of the moment, and that worries me. I want him to make the right choices, whether it’s holding my hand while navigating the steps or driving cautiously on slippery roads after getting his license.
As I helped him into his coat for preschool, I reminded him, “Keep your hands back, sweetheart.” But he didn’t, and the zipper caught his finger, leading to more tears and a surge of mommy guilt. I kissed his cheeks and the tiny injured fingertip, feeling the weight of the moment.
“We’re having a tough morning, Mommy,” he said, curling up on my lap. “It’s just a scratch,” I reassured him, genuinely hoping for a future filled with only minor injuries.
There’s a saying I often reflect on: “To have a child is to decide forever to have your heart walk around outside your body.” It’s so much more than that; it’s like watching your heart navigate a busy street without a controller in your hands. All you can do is offer guidance and set an example. “Please listen to me,” you plead, but sometimes, they simply won’t.
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In summary, while it’s impossible to shield our children from every fall and scrape, our role as parents is to guide them through their experiences. Acknowledging our limitations allows us to support our children better as they navigate their own paths.