This month, a popular fashion magazine has released a collection of four covers featuring remarkable women who embody creativity, strength, and motherhood. Among those highlighted is none other than our beloved “regular gal from the city,” who has broken barriers as the first female rapper to grace the cover. It’s a choice that reflects a refreshing take on the realities of motherhood—especially in contrast to the often polished portrayals seen on social media.
Since welcoming her daughter Sky into the world in July 2018, the 27-year-old has openly shared the ups and downs of parenthood. In her candid interview with the magazine, when her 17-month-old daughter entered the room, she paused to embrace her little one, admitting she’s still navigating the tricky waters of work-life balance (we’re right there with you!). “Being a mom—let’s just say it’s a little tougher to juggle everything, but it’s good for the soul. When I’m playing with my daughter, I forget about the chaos,” she shared, hinting at the relentless negativity she faces online regarding her music and parenting choices.
Unapologetic Attitude
One of the reasons fans adore her is her unapologetic attitude. She and her friend could easily share a tiny purse and still have plenty of space left for all the cares they don’t give. However, it doesn’t mean the constant barrage of online comments is easy to handle.
For her, the scrutiny intensified when she announced her pregnancy. “When I was expecting Sky, there were so many comments about my partner already having kids—why would I choose to have a child with him? But I don’t see the problem. My dad had eight kids, and we all get along well; it feels like a big family. I love how my partner’s kids add joy to our lives, bringing out a side of him I admire. I cherish watching my daughter bond with her siblings. More love is always better,” she explained.
Emotional Warrior
It’s incredible how she maintains her composure (mostly) during such an emotionally charged time in her life. Just imagine facing a storm of judgment about your decisions while dealing with the overwhelming feelings that come with pregnancy. Yeah, no thanks.
Thankfully, she describes herself as an emotional warrior, perhaps even more so since becoming a mom. “She’s handling a lot,” her partner remarked, emphasizing how motherhood has sharpened her focus. “I always encourage her not to pay attention to the haters. She’s always spoken her truth, long before her music career. At the end of the day, she’s going to rap about the real experience of being a woman.”
Challenges of Touring
Of course, every woman’s journey is unique. For her, it involves the challenges of touring the world. Now that traveling is trickier with Sky, she has established the rule that if a trip lasts less than five days, her daughter stays home with family. But following this guideline is a challenge. “Now it’s getting hard because she wants to cuddle me or she cries when she sees me on FaceTime,” she confessed. “She’s become my little buddy, and leaving her is tough.”
Defying Criticism
Yet, some critics argue that her lifestyle choices—like her past and her bold lyrics—make her a poor mother. To counter that, she makes a powerful statement: “I can dance provocatively, I can be the wildest person ever, but I’m still a fantastic mom. I shower my daughter with love and I’m working hard to secure her future.” Truth!
Empowering the Next Generation
Moreover, everything she does has one ultimate goal: to teach her daughter how to thrive in a man’s world. Jokingly discussing a potential kids’ clothing line with her partner, she quipped that Sky might just be the real boss. “Right, Sky? I’m working my butt off now so you can have a nice car when you’re 18, a good education, and your own place,” she said, adding, “If you want to go to college, that’s cool, but I want you to own whatever you desire. Be a leader. Be in charge.”
Further Reading
If you’re interested in exploring more about parenting and related topics, check out this other blog post at this link. You can also find great resources at WomensHealth.gov for pregnancy guidance. And if you’re looking for fun activities for kids, visit this site.
Conclusion
In summary, this month’s feature shines a spotlight on a groundbreaking female rapper who, while navigating the complexities of motherhood and public scrutiny, remains committed to raising her daughter with love and strength.