As a single child of separated parents, I’ve often experienced moments of feeling adrift. However, by broadening my perspective, I discover the unwavering support of my aunts. Spanning from Nebraska to Texas, these remarkable women are an essential part of the foundation upon which I stand, often without recognition.
At any given time, I find solace knowing that one of my aunts might be engaging in familiar activities: cheering for the Huskers, inviting me to join her in a game on social media, escorting Grandma on errands, enjoying margaritas with friends, or stretching on the living room floor. Though none reside in my city, their presence is integral to my identity. Their mere existence fills me with comfort and happiness. I often wish they could be nearby, like a strong Midwestern tribe, united in proximity.
My aunts are intricately woven into my cherished memories. I recall being five, twirling with an aunt to Bob Seger at a Nebraska wedding and feeling like a grown-up. When I was twelve, another aunt eagerly tried to pinpoint the moment her body changed, so I could measure my own development (which, alas, never happened). They have been alongside me in various moments—doing Jane Fonda workouts, preparing holiday feasts, and managing the chaos of family gatherings.
As I grew older, I drew inspiration from my aunts overcoming their hurdles. During my first challenging year as a teacher, one aunt shared her own struggles in the classroom, recounting how she fought tears on the drive to school. Another aunt opened up about her battle with postpartum depression during a time I found it difficult to rise from bed after giving birth to my son.
My aunts have paved the way, and their triumphs inspire me to persevere. They provide unwavering encouragement, celebrating my children’s milestones, promoting my work, and loving me from afar through difficult times.
Now, as an aunt myself, I feel a strong desire to honor this role. I envision taking my niece to exciting events like Disney on Ice, painting her nails, and indulging in shopping sprees. I want to be the confidante who discusses her relationships, answers questions about growing up, and buys her those trendy jeans that break the bank. I aim to support her passions and stand by her as she navigates the ups and downs of adolescence.
With my nephew, I look forward to building with Duplos and marveling at his knack for keeping everyone on their toes. I want to cheer for him at sports events, attend his art exhibits, and support whatever pursuits he chooses. As he becomes a teenager, I aspire to take him out for hearty meals and hope he shares snippets of his mysterious teenage life.
I want them to feel my presence even from a distance, but I hope it’s something they never have to consciously think about. Much like my own aunts, I want to be the quiet yet impactful support in their lives.
The role of an aunt often goes unrecognized, yet it is undeniably vital. Aunts offer a unique form of nurturing that complements mothers. They provide a fresh perspective, serving as the fun alternative to a strict mom or the compassionate ear to a worldly one.
So, whether your aunts are close or far away, take a moment to appreciate these wonderful women. Let’s celebrate the aunts who add balance and an extra layer of love to our lives.
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