Have you ever heard the saying, “happy wife, happy life”? It’s true, but let’s not forget another important truth: a happy MOM is the ultimate prize! That’s why I find Mother’s Day amusing in a peculiar way. I mean, why am I still changing diapers and dealing with snot on MY special day? Not exactly what I signed up for.
I can already sense some of you ready to drop your not-so-pleasant comments. I know, I know—Mother’s Day is meant to celebrate motherhood, and I should be grateful. Sure, some people can’t have kids, and I get that. But honestly, why should we carry the burden of parenting on the one day that’s supposed to honor us? That’s where the concept of a pre-Mother’s Day Mother’s Day comes in.
About five years ago, a friend introduced me to this game-changing idea. She gathers with her friends at a fabulous resort near Los Angeles the day before Mother’s Day for a full day of champagne, sunshine, and adult conversation—sans kids! Some even indulge in massages. At the end of the day, they either take a cab home or stay overnight at the resort.
Now, to all the skeptics out there still reading, I’m not trying to diminish the joy of Mother’s Day itself. Breakfast in bed, homemade gifts crafted from macaroni, and those extra hugs make it all worthwhile. But let’s be honest: nothing beats the relaxation of a pre-Mother’s Day Mother’s Day.
Dads, listen up. This is a golden opportunity for you. Embrace the benefits of planning a pre-Mother’s Day celebration! Trust me, your efforts will pay off in dividends. Last year, my friend’s husband surprised her with a suite at a local resort, allowing us to lounge by the pool all day followed by a night filled with laughter and drinks. The following day, the dads brought the kids, and everyone was in high spirits.
Imagine us painting each other’s nails or having a pillow fight. We were carefree, and the appreciation for that husband skyrocketed. Other dads looked a bit envious, but that’s how it goes—competition breeds creativity. Now, they’re all planning to take turns for years to come because, let’s face it, guys are inherently competitive.
And what’s next on the horizon for you fathers? Father’s Day! Those golf clubs you’ve been eyeing? You might just get them, along with a perfect day to use them. It’s a win-win situation for everyone involved. When you make us happy, we’ll make sure to keep your happiness in mind too.
I should mention one potential downside to this pre-Mother’s Day celebration: you may not feel your best on the actual day. But fear not! Just a couple of words for recovery: Gatorade and Ibuprofen. You’ll be fine. Now, go out there and spread the joy of pre-Mother’s Day Mother’s Day!
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Summary
In summary, the idea of a pre-Mother’s Day Mother’s Day is an opportunity for mothers to unwind and celebrate themselves a day early, free from the responsibilities of parenting. Dads can score major points by organizing these events, leading to a happier family dynamic overall.