Category: conception
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New Moms of Rainbow Babies Don’t Have to Cherish Every Single Moment
At home insemination “The days feel endless, but the years fly by.” If you’re a new parent, you’ve likely heard this saying. It’s often paired with the admonition to embrace every moment of your child’s growth. For those of us with rainbow babies—children born after the heartache of miscarriage, stillbirth, or neonatal loss—the pressure to…
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Forget the Birth Plan (Seriously)
At home insemination “Get a shoelace to clamp the umbilical cord,” my landlord relayed to the 911 dispatcher as I lay on the kitchen floor, blood pooling around me. My partner grabbed a lace from his sneaker and asked, “Does it matter if it’s dirty?” Our newborn lay on my belly, swaddled in a towel.…
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Navigating ‘Mom Friends’ vs. ‘Friends Who Are Moms’
At home insemination In a recent conversation with a fellow new mother, I found myself saying, “Don’t hesitate to try a nipple shield; cracked nipples are truly the worst!” Moments later, I warned another mom about the vibrant orange hue she could expect in her baby’s diapers after introducing sweet potatoes. It’s fascinating how quickly…
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LEGO Sets So Amazing, Kids Won’t Want to Stop Building
at home insemination syringe The ultimate gift for any child is undoubtedly a magnificent LEGO set that can keep them engaged for hours—or even days! LEGO bricks are like the IKEA of the toy world: every single piece contributes to a larger creation that sparks the imagination. Countless hours of focus, a bit of frustration…
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Expecting a Child? Exciting News! Here Are 9 Key Points About Stem Cell Banking
At home insemination Congratulations on your pregnancy! As you embark on this incredible journey, you may have heard about the concept of stem cell banking, particularly regarding cord blood. This innovative technology offers promising options for your child’s future health. To help you make an informed decision, we’ve partnered with Americord, a leading private cord…
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Parenting at the Heart of the Pandemic
At home insemination As a resident of King County, Washington, the epicenter of the COVID-19 outbreak in the U.S., I live with my partner and our two elementary-aged children. By March 18, our county had reported 562 COVID-19 cases, resulting in 56 tragic fatalities. Alarmingly, 35 of those deaths were at the Life Care Center…
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Capturing Life’s Struggles: The Importance of Photos in Difficult Times
At home insemination When welcoming a new baby into the family, parents often envision how their older children will react to meeting their sibling for the first time. We meticulously choose T-shirts proclaiming “Big Brother” and “Big Sister” and eagerly anticipate that first family photo. However, for me, this experience unfolded quite differently. I had…
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Oh, You’re Not a Parent? Here’s a Thought: STFU
At home insemination I’ve been reflecting quite a bit lately. The passing of my beloved pet, Max, and my heart-wrenching experience of losing my baby at 17 weeks gestation have weighed heavily on my mind. In both situations, I found that nearly every mother I spoke to shared my perspective: Max’s loss was a profound…
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I Regret Not Requesting a Different Labor and Delivery Nurse — But I Didn’t Realize I Could
At home insemination When it comes to my births, aside from the C-section I didn’t plan for, my second and third experiences exceeded my expectations. I’ve always had an exceptional OBGYN, earning him a metaphorical gold medal for his work. However, let’s face it: while doctors are crucial, it’s the labor and delivery nurses who…
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A Mother’s Cheeky Selfies Spark Mixed Reactions
At home insemination A mother recently shared a series of selfies featuring her peacefully sleeping baby girl, but with a cheeky twist — she’s flipping her off in each shot. Unsurprisingly, the online community had mixed reactions. If you’re a parent and claim that you’ve never felt the urge to express frustration in a similar…