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As we emerge from the pandemic and vaccines become more widespread, I find myself reflecting on my pre-pandemic social life, much like a character from a show who realizes an important lesson. A moment of reckoning is approaching. What have we truly learned during these trying times? The behaviors exhibited throughout the pandemic have exposed the core values of many. We’ve witnessed a significant chapter in American history unfold—what truly mattered to individuals? How did they respond? And ultimately, can we extend forgiveness in a post-COVID-19 world?
Throughout most of the pandemic, I felt like the only one diligently contributing to a group effort. My family and I adhered strictly to guidelines: we stayed home, wore masks, and maintained distance. We had the privilege of being able to do so, and we committed to it. When I discuss forgiveness after the pandemic, I’m not referring to economic challenges or decisions made out of necessity—many people had to work, and not everyone had the option of remote work. Likewise, I’m not judging parents who made tough choices regarding their children’s schooling; I understand the pressure to prioritize family needs.
I’m focusing on actions that truly warrant forgiveness in this new chapter.
Can We Forgive Deception?
What about those who chose to deceive? Can we forgive individuals who, aware of our disapproval, made choices that jeopardized collective health and then lied about it? The pandemic revealed who among us could be trusted and who could not, especially when it came to matters of health. For example, some prioritized socializing over the well-being of others, even putting vulnerable individuals at risk.
In a post-COVID-19 era, do we simply overlook these deceptions? Some of these individuals seemed reliable in everyday matters, but the pandemic has shaken that trust.
Can We Forgive Those Who Refused to Mask Up?
What about those who outright refused to wear masks? This behavior epitomized selfishness during the pandemic. Some rejected scientific consensus for political reasons, while others simply weren’t willing to put aside their comfort for the sake of public health. How do we reconcile our feelings towards those who prioritized their own discomfort over the health of others?
These actions have unveiled critical aspects of their character, and it’s hard to ignore that selfishness.
Can We Forgive the Rule Breakers?
Then there are the rule-breakers who disregarded guidelines for trivial indulgences, such as dining indoors or visiting crowded spaces. For many of us, adhering to safety measures was a significant sacrifice, while others seemed to breeze through the pandemic with little regard for the collective struggle. How do we address the resentment felt towards those who seemingly escaped the true weight of the pandemic experience?
What About Estrangements?
Perhaps the most painful topic is the estrangements that occurred during the pandemic. Disagreements over how to navigate these unprecedented times led to severed ties—relationships that once seemed solid crumbled. Can we realistically return to normalcy after such rifts? Estrangements over pandemic decisions might signal deeper issues within those relationships.
I shared my thoughts on post-COVID-19 forgiveness with my son, and he simply remarked, “No, we shouldn’t forgive them. They’ve shown us their true colors.” I resonate with that sentiment. Many revealed their priorities, demonstrating a willingness to lie or manipulate to serve their own ends.
In a post-COVID-19 world, I am uncertain who will occupy my social circle. The pandemic has made it clear that some people may no longer fit into my life.
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Summary
As we transition to a post-COVID-19 world, questions surrounding forgiveness arise. The pandemic has exposed behaviors and values that challenge our ability to reconcile with those who may have acted selfishly or deceitfully. Estrangements and trust issues have surfaced, prompting us to consider who truly belongs in our lives moving forward.