As autumn’s crisp air sets in, we find ourselves on the sidelines for one last season, watching our seniors take to the field with their high school soccer teams. Memories flood back of when our children were small, their soccer shorts and socks barely fitting, and of unforgettable moments like that third-grade home run or the game-winning touchdown in high school—scenes reminiscent of feel-good films. We recall the exhilarating buzzer-beaters and the gut-wrenching losses, the seasons spent warming the bench, and those spent in the spotlight.
Transitioning from the sidelines of our kids’ games to the periphery of their lives, still cheering but from a distance, stirs nostalgia. We remember those nerve-wracking trips to the ER, cradling our child and pondering if competitive sports were truly worth it. We’ve wiped tears of disappointment, frustration, and confusion, yet those moments underscored the importance of teamwork and the valuable lessons learned on the field. The pure, overflowing joy that comes when a child achieves success after hard work is something we cherish deeply.
We have cheered, consoled, and provided first aid and refreshments, never truly alone. We were surrounded by some of the most remarkable parents we could ever hope to meet—friends made and strangers turned allies, all sharing the bleachers and the journey.
In gratitude, we wish to acknowledge:
- The parents who arrive with large containers of coffee, complete with cups, milk, and sugar—on chilly November days, they’re heroes.
- Moms who quell younger siblings’ complaints with snacks, filling in the gaps we occasionally left. There’s a special place in heaven for those who brought homemade treats to the sidelines.
- Younger siblings who deserve eternal commendations for their good sportsmanship, always present at every game, often bribed with sweets.
- Parents with medical expertise—nurses and doctors who eased our worries after a bumped head or a scraped chin and offered reassurance about ER visits.
- The volunteer coaches who sacrifice weekends and evenings to share their passion for sports, bravely navigating complaints and challenging circumstances. We salute you.
- Friends with oversized blankets and umbrellas—parents neatly fall into those who are prepared and those who are not, and we greatly appreciate those who think ahead.
- The moms of varsity players who welcomed us into the team fold, and their kids who made our own feel included.
- Amateur photographer parents, always with impressive lenses, capturing moments we can treasure forever.
- The diligent team managers, tirelessly organizing drinks and logistics, sending weather updates at all hours. We often wonder how this was managed before email existed.
- Stand-in parents who stepped in to care for our children when we were otherwise occupied; without their help, our kids would likely still be waiting by the field.
- Lastly, every parent who embodied the spirit of a team by cheering for all, supporting coaches, and remaining quiet about the referees. Their actions have set a remarkable example of sportsmanship and community for our children—lessons we hope they carry into adulthood.
As we approach the end of this season, we reflect on the past decade and a half spent among these incredible people. We’ve braved rain, snow, and scorching sun together, sharing both camaraderie and coffee. With each passing week, we cherish the moments left, recognizing how significant these friendships have been in our lives.
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In summary, as we bid farewell to the sidelines, we embrace the memories and relationships formed during this incredible journey. The lessons learned and the friendships made will always hold a special place in our hearts.