At the End of the Day, It Feels Like I’ve Achieved Nothing

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As I prepared for bed, I strolled through the house, turning off lights and checking doors.

In the laundry room, I was greeted by a mountain of dirty clothes overflowing from the basket. Oh, and there was a load in the washing machine that I’d completely forgotten about. I’ll tackle that tomorrow, I thought.

The kitchen was no better. The dishwasher was ajar, clean dishes waiting to be put away, while a sink full of dirty dishes needed rinsing before they could join the clean ones. I’ll handle it tomorrow.

As I navigated through the dimly lit living room, I felt the familiar crunch of toys underfoot. Puzzle pieces, toy cars, and blankets created a chaotic scene. I’ll clean that up tomorrow, too.

In the hallway, I could feel the remnants of the outdoors stuck to my feet—dirt from the kids and crumbs from snack time. I’ll vacuum when I have a moment tomorrow.

Just as I reached the bottom of the stairs, I noticed my dog prancing around anxiously. Upon investigation, I found she had a little mess stuck in her fur. Off I went to the kitchen for scissors to tidy her up. I’ll give her a proper bath tomorrow.

Finally, I made it to my bedroom only to hear my three-year-old wailing. He had an accident in bed due to too much pre-sleep hydration. I changed him, threw a blanket over the wet sheet, and told him to settle down. I’ll change the sheets tomorrow.

While it may seem like I accomplished nothing today, the truth is, I managed to do all the laundry in the house—washed, dried, folded, and even put some of it away. But then the kids had their fun outside and got muddy, requiring yet another outfit change. My toddler had a potty mishap, which meant even more laundry. I got sidetracked with dinner and bedtime, and that load in the washer simply didn’t make it to the dryer.

I did unload the dishwasher, and all the clean dishes found their way into the cabinets, but the dirty ones piled up again. The sheer volume from the previous night meant I was already gearing up for another wash. The dinner dishes now awaited their turn in the sink as I sighed.

I picked up toys multiple times, but when Dad got home, the kids were thrilled, leading to a flurry of puzzles and racetrack chaos. The living room looked like a toy store explosion.

I vacuumed every room today, but the kids’ outdoor adventures and snack time left trails of dirt and crumbs in their wake. By bedtime, the floors had returned to their messy state.

I even gave the dog a bath! She smelled delightful afterward, but I forgot to trim the fur around her backside, leading to yet another mess.

I did manage to change the sheets today, washing, drying, and putting them back on the beds. But the salty chips I foolishly gave my toddler before bed resulted in a repeat bedwetting incident.

So, while it may seem like I did nothing today, by bedtime, it felt like I had done it all—but you wouldn’t know it by looking around. Tomorrow, I might just do nothing again.

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In summary, despite feeling like I achieved nothing at the end of the day, I tackled multiple household tasks only for them to be undone by the chaos of family life. Tomorrow promises another round of busy-ness, but perhaps I’ll embrace the mess a little more.