Welcome to the Home Insemination Kit advice column, where we tackle your questions about parenting, relationships, and everything in between. This week, we’re addressing a parent’s concern about their child feeling isolated for wearing a mask at school.
Dear Home Insemination Kit,
My daughter just started third grade after being away from in-person schooling since first grade. Now, just one week in, she’s already expressing her dislike for school because she feels like she’s the only one wearing a mask. While she’s worn a mask without any problems for over a year, it bothers her that none of her classmates are doing the same. She mentioned that only the teacher wears one, and a couple of kids have even teased her about it. I know that as a parent, intervening can sometimes make bullying worse, but I also don’t believe it’s right for kids to mock others for trying to stay safe during a pandemic. She doesn’t want me to get involved, but it breaks my heart to see her struggle. She has even said she wishes she didn’t have to wear it, feeling frustrated by the situation. What can I do?
Unfortunately, this issue will likely be common for many children and their families this year. Many school leaders are leaving mask mandates to parents, making the situation quite challenging. It’s frustrating, especially after so many families made sacrifices last year only to see safety measures dismissed now when the delta variant poses a greater risk.
I understand your daughter’s desire for you not to intervene. One approach might be to find out if any children in other third-grade classes are wearing masks. If there are, consider asking if she can switch to one of those classes. Even having just a couple of peers who share her choice could provide her with some much-needed support. It’s true that when you’re the only one doing something different, it can feel isolating.
If switching classes isn’t an option, continue to encourage her and reassure her that wearing a mask is one of the safest ways to stay in school without interruptions. If many kids at her school aren’t wearing masks, it’s likely that the school will face COVID-related closures and quarantines. Hopefully, the school will reconsider its mask policy, but if not, it may be a long year for her. After a few weeks, the other kids might stop noticing or teasing her as they move on to other targets.
If your daughter is genuinely struggling, consider seeking out a child therapist if it’s financially feasible. They can help validate her feelings and equip her with coping strategies. You might also want to write a letter to the school to inquire about their mask policy; here are some templates you could use.
Good luck, and know that you’re not alone in this. Give your daughter an extra hug from me.
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In summary, navigating the complexities of mask-wearing in schools can be challenging for both children and parents. Providing support, exploring options for peer connections, and considering professional guidance can help your child cope with their feelings and experience a more positive school year.