Welcome to the Home Insemination Kit advice column, where our team of “experts” provides guidance on everything from parenting to personal relationships, and beyond. This week’s question comes from a mom who prefers solitude at the park.
Dear Home Insemination Kit,
With summer in full swing, my kids and I are spending a lot of time at the park. They’re 4 and 6 years old, and thankfully, I don’t have to hover over them anymore. I enjoy watching them play and love the chance to read my book while they have fun. However, it seems like other moms always gravitate toward me, eager to chat. I appreciate a friendly wave or smile but I’m not looking to make ‘mom friends’ at the park. I have enough friends already and I’m not interested in any multi-level marketing schemes. I want to read in peace and keep an eye on my kids without getting drawn into long conversations. Is it rude to make it clear that I prefer to be left alone?
Oh, how I can relate to your desire for some quiet time while your kids play! It’s a true milestone in motherhood to be able to relax a bit while they enjoy the outdoors. You don’t have to be mean; however, it might be time for some straightforward yet polite honesty. Many moms seek connections wherever they can, and while that’s understandable, your priorities are different.
You could say something like, “I’m really enjoying this book and want to make the most of my time here.” If your kids are playing nicely, it’s natural for other moms to see that as an opportunity to connect, possibly hoping for future playdates. But remember, you’re not obligated to engage if it doesn’t interest you. You deserve your own space and time.
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In summary, it’s perfectly okay to want some quiet time at the park while your children play. Being polite yet clear about your preferences can help maintain your peace without offending others.