It’s truly delightful to witness their innocence at this age, and I often find myself indulging in their affection. My boys adore their mom; they surprise me with spontaneous tackle-hugs and shower me with kisses. They dance around, shaking their little booties, bursting with joy. Their humor about their bodies is infectious, and they often point and giggle, treating their anatomy like a toy during bath time.
Yet, as their mother, I recognize that the exuberance they display can easily shift into something harmful if not guided properly. The innocent joy of physicality could one day morph into a disregard for boundaries if I don’t teach them the importance of respect. Unchecked tackle-hugging could evolve into something more aggressive — pinning someone against a wall, forcing unwanted affection, or failing to recognize when someone says no.
“Hey, buddy! I need you to be gentle. I wasn’t prepared for that hug, and I almost lost my balance. Next time, can you ask if I’m ready for a hug?” My son steps back, a smile lighting up his face as he extends his arms. “Can I give you a hug?” “Absolutely! I would love to have all the hugs you want to give!”