Parenting Insights
Three weeks ago, my nine-year-old son injured his ankle during a basketball playoff game. Unfortunately, there’s no exciting story behind the injury; he simply tripped while running down the court. This Friday, he’ll finally be free from his bright orange cast—a fact he’ll enthusiastically share with anyone who will listen, including the high school student at the local cookie shop.
To say he’s excited to remove this Sunkist-colored accessory would be an understatement. I must commend him for managing the entire situation with remarkable positivity—always smiling and never complaining. To appreciate the significance of this moment, it’s essential to understand his background. He was quite the challenging toddler, throwing multiple tantrums daily. From complaints about itchy shirt tags to the “wrong” texture of his bagel, it felt like a constant battle.
During those exhausting years, I often found myself trying to “fix” my child while also consuming copious amounts of wine. I never thought about creating an Instagram account to share images of my child in various stages of his meltdowns with the hashtag #difficultparent. It wasn’t even an option back then.
However, fellow blogger and mom of four, Lisa Carter, launched such an Instagram account, and it turns out I’m not alone in my parenting struggles. Here’s a sampling of relatable posts:
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It’s humorous how shared experiences can create a sense of community. As Lisa noted, “Despite our best efforts, children can be disappointed, and I hope this serves as a humorous reminder that we’re all navigating these waters together.” If that resonates with you, then we’re on the same wavelength.
That said, think twice before posting your child’s less-than-perfect moments online; every moment of vulnerability is just a screenshot away from going viral. While being a challenging toddler is a phase that passes, the label of a difficult parent can linger longer.
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Summary:
Navigating the challenges of parenting can often feel overwhelming, especially when dealing with a difficult child. My son’s recent ankle injury serves as a reminder of how far he’s come—and how important it is to share our experiences. We’re all in this together, and there are plenty of resources available to help us along the way.