Dear Allergy Parents,
I want to begin by expressing my respect for the challenges you face. While I can’t truly claim to know your experience, I can imagine the difficulties. As a parent, I understand the deep love and concern that comes with raising children, but I have not walked in your shoes.
I don’t experience the constant worry that fills your mind when your child is away from you, fearing that a simple mistake—like a peanut residue on a knife used to spread jelly—could lead to a serious reaction. I haven’t rushed my child to the emergency room, feeling helpless as they struggle to breathe or see their skin covered in hives. I haven’t spent countless hours negotiating with restaurant staff, trying to ensure that every meal is safe—a conversation that can be as frustrating as it is necessary.
I cannot fathom the time and energy spent filling out school forms, or the anxiety that comes with every outing, wondering if you packed the right bag to accommodate an EpiPen. Nor can I imagine the panic that sets in when, for a fleeting moment, you can’t find that life-saving device.
While my experiences differ significantly, I do know the profound love a parent feels for their child. I understand the instinct to protect them fiercely while also nurturing their independence. I want my child to grow up healthy, happy, and courageous.
Although I may not know the specifics of being an allergy parent, I commit to being an ally. I will strive to understand your situation better, offering empathy and support. I will focus on what your child can eat rather than what they cannot. If it takes visiting multiple stores to find the right snacks, I will gladly do so because your child’s safety is paramount.
I will listen attentively to the list of foods your child must avoid while playing at my home, ensuring that our environment is safe and welcoming. I will remind my child to steer clear of peanut butter and trail mix during lunch, so that your child does not feel isolated at school.
Rest assured, I recognize you are doing your utmost to keep your child safe, just as we all are. Although I may not fully understand the life of an allergy parent, I deeply appreciate the love and care you put into every decision you make for your child.
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In summary, while I may not know what it’s like to have a child with allergies, I am here to support you and your family as best as I can.