Dear Little One,
Last night was another long night filled with your cries. I cradled you against my chest, pacing the floors, my bare feet slowly eroding the wood beneath us—a familiar pattern shared by countless mothers navigating the challenges of colic. It feels like we haven’t had a restful night in ages, and I share in your exhaustion and frustration. There’s so much I want to express to you; even though you are just a tiny baby, my heart is overflowing with love and concern.
As a mother, I often feel an innate pressure to possess the wisdom to soothe you. However, the truth is that your cries are unlike any normal sounds I’ve heard. I find myself desperate to alleviate your discomfort. Are you in pain? This question spirals in my mind, igniting a flurry of fears that only intensify my anxiety. I have tried everything: rocking, long car rides, lullabies, and gentle back rubs, yet nothing seems to bring you peace.
When tears well up in my eyes, it’s not from anger or frustration—though those feelings sometimes lurk nearby. I cry because it pains me to see you in distress, your little face flushed and your tiny hands clenched in discomfort. I reach out to the pediatrician again, seeking reassurance, but they insist this is just a phase. They suggest I continue with lullabies and rocking, dismissing my worries as typical for new moms. I hang up the phone, feeling unheard, and take you in my arms once more. Your tiny breaths against my chest are a reminder of my love for you, and I long to reassure you that everything will be alright.
Maybe this is a phase. Perhaps I am being overly cautious. After all, I carried you for nine months. But deep down, I know that your cries—especially that raw, pained sound—cannot simply be disregarded as normal. I feel a strong urge to take action, to find a way to ease your suffering.
So, we journey together through sleepless nights. I tweak your feeding routine, try different burping techniques, and even adjust my diet to ensure the breast milk is easier for your little tummy to handle. Days turn into weeks, and weeks into months.
Gradually, your cries begin to soften. Before long, I notice you sleeping peacefully on my chest instead of wailing. Your tiny fingers curl around mine, replacing the earlier clenched tension with a sense of calm. My love for you is boundless; I would traverse any distance to bring you comfort.
I want you to know, sweet baby, that above all else, I love you unconditionally, fiercely, and wholeheartedly.
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In summary, while the journey through colic is challenging, it’s crucial to remember that your feelings and concerns as a parent are valid. The love you have for your child will guide you through the sleepless nights and difficult days.