As I sat at my desk, engrossed in my work, a notification popped up on my screen with a striking message: “All bad things must come to an end.” It was an advertisement for Mötley Crüe’s farewell tour, set to roll into my town that weekend. I’ll admit, I’m not the most diligent follower of my favorite metal bands anymore. Between the demands of parenthood and a myriad of distractions, I had no idea that Mötley Crüe was disbanding. I wasn’t even certain if they were still producing new music, as my playlist seems to be stuck in 2008.
The phrase “all bad things must come to an end” echoed in my mind. Was this really a genuine farewell, or merely a ploy to boost ticket sales? Farewell tours often precede reunion tours; bands frequently split due to disagreements, rehab stints, or egos clashing before reuniting for a nostalgia-fueled comeback. I can hardly keep track of what’s trending in music these days; my children’s preferences have left me out of the loop. I can belt out the theme songs from current kids’ shows, but beyond that, I’m lost. My car doesn’t have satellite radio, as I know I’d never get to choose the playlist amidst the chaos of backseat activity.
If I had to name my favorite badass ’80s metal bands, Mötley Crüe would undoubtedly top the list. I had seen them live on two occasions. Ah, the late ’80s and early ’90s, when rock stars flaunted wild hairstyles and spandex like it was their birthright.
That ad felt like an invitation from Nikki Sixx himself. I told my husband we needed to hire a babysitter and grab tickets for the concert.
Attending a metal concert in my 40s brings an entirely different vibe than it did in my 20s. There was no meticulous outfit planning days in advance; I simply threw on whatever was clean and weather-appropriate before we headed out. Instead of fretting about our proximity to the stage, I was more concerned with avoiding a stampede of overzealous fans tossing their underwear at the band—do people even do that anymore?
Now, going to a concert involves remembering cash for the babysitter and hunting for restaurants offering early-bird specials. After the show, I’d be pushing the limits of my bedtime. Yet, the thrill leading up to the event felt familiar. I cranked up my favorite 80s metal tracks and reminisced about my previous Crüe concerts—one of which is a bit hazy in my memory, if I’m being honest.
On our way to the venue, my husband and I engaged in casual conversation about our children and whether we should replace our water heater now or wait until next year. If that doesn’t scream “Decade of Decadence,” I’m not sure what does.
I was eager to rock out and see a fantastic show. It quickly became evident that this farewell tour was no gimmick. The Jumbotron flashed hashtags for social media posts, a clear sign of the times; one caught my attention: #RIPMOTLEYCRUE.
Throughout the two-hour performance, the phrase “for the last time” was repeated often. Vince, Tommy, and Nikki shared heartfelt reflections, underscored by a spectacular pyrotechnics display that left no doubt this was a genuine farewell. They played their hearts out, and if any of it felt staged, I was convinced otherwise.
As I sang along and strummed an air guitar (with zero shame), a wave of melancholy washed over me. Mötley Crüe had been a constant for 34 years, and I had been accompanying them through much of that time. Some memories of the ’80s are foggy, but I still recall the day I bought “Too Fast for Love” on vinyl back in 1983. I would dance around my room with a hairbrush, dreaming of how Nikki Sixx would sweep me off my feet and whisk me away into a glamorous life of miniskirts and stiletto heels.
The final show is slated for New Year’s Eve, and I can’t help but feel downcast. It’s not that I’ll miss their music; Mötley Crüe peaked long ago. Their best work is already on my playlist, which remains rooted in 2008. Vince, Tommy, and the rest are aging—softening, just like their fans, myself included. Vince Neil doesn’t boast the same physique he had in 1988, but then again, neither do I.
If Mötley Crüe continued touring, it wouldn’t be long before they faced dwindling crowds. There’s something disheartening about watching a once-great band perform at county fairs or casinos—trust me, I learned that the hard way when I saw Bret Michaels perform at a local event in 2010.
Kudos to the Crüe for bowing out gracefully, but in doing so, they’ve forced me to confront my own aging, a reality I didn’t anticipate while cruising home from a rock concert. Reliving my glory days was exhilarating, yet I felt a piece of my youth drift away with the final notes of “Home Sweet Home.”
Music evokes powerful nostalgia, stirring a spectrum of emotions. I’m grateful for that ad that popped up one fateful day: “All bad things must come to an end.” Indeed, as they say, seasons must change—different paths, different journeys.
Cheers to Mötley Crüe. It seems you won’t be leaving in anger, but you are leaving. Thank you for 34 incredible years. I can recall most of them, and I know many share that sentiment.
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In summary, while Mötley Crüe’s farewell marks the end of an era for many fans, it also serves as a poignant reminder of how we navigate the passage of time—both in music and in life.