While business travelers might not notice the decline in service, families certainly do. The real issue isn’t just the ever-increasing fees, cramped seating, or the many inconveniences; it’s the dismissive attitude from airlines that suggests we should be thankful for the bare minimum. If additional assistance is needed? Too bad.
You may have come across a headline recently that caught your attention, perhaps without clicking through. For instance, “Family Removed From Flight After Daughter With Autism Was Considered ‘Disruptive.’” It soon became apparent that this was more than just a headline about a mother’s frustration (“Mother of autistic teen removed from plane claims United overreacted”).
Finally, I decided to read into the details. The treatment of this teenager by flight attendants was disheartening. Her needs were not complex, yet the family’s only mistake was seeking a little understanding and support. Instead, they were met with indifference and were ultimately removed from the flight.
Overview of the Incident
Here’s a brief overview: Dr. Sarah Carter was traveling with her husband and their 15-year-old daughter, Lily, who has autism. Lily declined the food her parents offered, insisting on a hot meal. From what I understand about children on the autism spectrum, they can fixate on certain ideas and resist change. Dr. Carter requested that the crew heat up a chicken sandwich, but they refused. She even offered to purchase a meal from first class, but that too was denied. When she asked for a snack, the answer was still no. Frustrated, she suggested that perhaps they would be more inclined to help after her daughter had a meltdown. Eventually, they reluctantly provided a hot meal, but by then, the damage was done.
Once Lily calmed down, she was eating and watching a movie, but then the pilot announced a diversion to a different airport due to a passenger-related issue. To Dr. Carter’s surprise, they were escorted off the plane despite Lily being well-behaved, and other passengers asserting that there had been no problem.
For a more detailed account, you can read Dr. Carter’s full post on Facebook. She has lodged complaints with United Airlines and the FAA and is considering legal action, not for financial gain but to push for better training for the airline staff. It appears that the crew doesn’t need to be experts in autism or every possible condition, but they should at least recognize that such conditions exist and show basic kindness. This wasn’t a case of an entitled mother demanding special treatment; it was simply a parent trying to ensure a smooth journey for her daughter and everyone on board.
The Need for Change
Unfortunately, the compassion from flight crews seems to have diminished, especially at a time when families are reluctant to pay extra for anything beyond basic services. For example, a father traveling from Charlotte to Birmingham had to pay an additional $88 just to sit next to his 4-year-old daughter, only to find several empty seats available once on board. In another incident, a mother and her infant were removed from a flight after the mother responded sharply when asked to move her baby from a carrier to her lap.
It’s about time for airlines to appreciate their family customers and remember that we have choices. Families are significant contributors to their revenue and deserve respect.
Resources for Family Travel
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In summary, airlines must acknowledge the needs of family travelers and treat them with the respect they deserve, especially in an age where additional fees and inconveniences are becoming the norm.