Let’s discuss a concerning trend among some parents who overlook their children’s disruptive behavior in public settings.
Take, for instance, a local foreign language school that organized a captivating story time at our community library for kids aged 4 to 6. Each week, the stories were told in a different language, and I thought it would be a wonderful opportunity to introduce my 5-year-old to a new culture. Surrounded by a handful of other families, we settled in, eagerly anticipating the session.
The storyteller began with cheerful greetings in Italian, and soon enough, he introduced puppets to engage the children. However, just minutes into the story, a little girl approached and started tugging on the puppet. The storyteller, maintaining his composure, gently moved the puppet out of reach while continuing his tale. Yet, this did not deter her. A little boy soon joined in, trying to grab the props as well. Despite the storyteller’s attempts to redirect them, the kids remained persistent in their antics.
While disruptive behavior can be expected from preschoolers, what astounded me was the sight of their parents, seated just a few feet away, smiling indulgently without stepping in. I’ve witnessed similar situations elsewhere: children climbing onto stages during performances or fussing in theaters without any attempt from their guardians to quiet them. Perhaps you recall the viral news story about two women filming boys damaging a glass sculpture at an art museum in China? Such scenarios are frustrating for everyone involved.
While I generally refrain from judging parenting styles, I find it difficult to comprehend the rationale behind allowing children to disrupt experiences for others without intervention. Is this a form of hands-off parenting? Do these parents believe that their children can do no wrong? Or might they simply be unaware of how their child’s behavior affects those around them?
I don’t subscribe to the notion that today’s kids are overly entitled; in fact, I believe they’re mostly great. However, I grow increasingly weary of the notion that bad behavior is somehow adorable—it isn’t.
During that story time, I felt uncomfortable stepping in to correct the children, especially since their parents were right there. The storyteller, visibly annoyed, was trying to maintain the flow of the story while promoting his foreign language classes. I almost said something, but the session ended before I could voice my concerns.
Every parent has their own approach to raising children, and I respect that. However, basic manners and respect for others should not be overlooked. If my child were to act out, I would gently correct him, and if he persisted, I would remove him from the situation. This seems like fundamental parenting, doesn’t it?
Of course, children with special needs deserve some flexibility due to various developmental challenges. Still, there should be limits to how disruptive behavior is tolerated. Teaching basic social etiquette is essential, and it’s a lesson that can be imparted to all children, regardless of their circumstances.
In essence, parents need to take responsibility for their children’s actions. If your child is disrupting an event or infringing on others’ experiences, please intervene. It’s crucial to establish that no child is exempt from common courtesy, regardless of how special or endearing their parents think they are. Can we all agree on that?
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In summary, being a parent comes with the responsibility to guide your children’s behavior, especially in public settings. It is essential to teach them the importance of respecting others and adhering to social norms.