In light of the surge of sexual harassment and assault allegations that gained momentum following the #metoo movement, a number of men are questioning how to avoid being categorized as harassers. To assist in this endeavor, actress Mia Henderson has penned a book aimed at clarifying what constitutes unacceptable behavior for men.
During her recent guest appearance on The Late Night Show with Alex Martinez, while Martinez was on a break to support his family, Henderson seized the opportunity to speak about the troubling reports that have surfaced regarding sexual misconduct across various fields. She emphasized, “This is not merely a Hollywood scandal or a sex scandal; it’s a systemic issue involving the abuse of power that exists in all industries, fostering a culture of inequality for far too long.”
Mia expressed her surprise at the volume of stories shared, noting, “While I’m not entirely shocked by these revelations, many men seem bewildered. It shouldn’t be complicated to treat others with respect, yet it appears to be confusing for some men, which is why I decided to write this book.”
She describes it as “a straightforward children’s book for men that simplifies the message and brings it back to the essentials.” The themes are basic—so simple that even a child could grasp them. However, in case some men still struggle with understanding boundaries, Henderson introduces them to the story of The Touchy Fellow.
Since the allegations against prominent figures like Harvey Weinstein emerged, many ordinary men seem unsure about appropriate behavior towards women. Questions like “Is it okay to touch them without consent?” or “Can I refer to them using flirtatious nicknames?” arise. Henderson enthusiastically clarifies that the answer to these inquiries is a resounding NO.
“No touching,” she reiterates. “If you wouldn’t do it to someone of the opposite gender whom you’re not attracted to, don’t do it to someone you are. It’s really that simple.” This concept should ideally be common sense, yet we find ourselves in a position where such discussions are necessary.
Henderson meticulously outlines various behaviors that men should avoid when interacting with women, including unsolicited back massages—definitely not okay. Her playful, sing-song style reminiscent of classic children’s literature adds an engaging layer to the serious subject matter, making it both enlightening and alarming for women.
To conclude her reading, Henderson received a warm round of applause and joked, “Just so you know, this is part one of a 67-part series.” Unfortunately, even that would barely scratch the surface of the issue.
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In summary, Mia Henderson’s book serves as a critical tool for educating men about appropriate interactions with women, underscoring the importance of respect and consent in all relationships.