Dear friends who are fortunate to still have your mothers,
The journey of life can be unpredictable, often shifting in ways we never expect. Just ten months ago, my world changed dramatically when my mother was diagnosed with cancer. The cruel nature of this illness often feels like a thief, stealing away precious moments and leaving a void that’s impossible to fill. One minute, we’re planning for the future together, and the next, we’re grappling with the reality of loss.
I never anticipated saying goodbye to my mom so soon, nor was I prepared for the emotional turmoil that followed. Her departure came upon me suddenly, leaving me with a mixture of peace, grounded in my faith, and an aching sense of longing. This Mother’s Day marks a significant milestone for me — it’s the first time I’m celebrating as a mother without my own mother by my side. I’ll be showered with love, cards, and gifts, yet I find myself unable to reciprocate or express the gratitude I feel for her teachings and the impact she had on my life.
So, to my dear friends who still have their mothers, I urge you to take this opportunity to connect with them this week.
- Whether your relationship is close or strained, reach out and show your love.
- If you often don’t see eye to eye, look her in the eyes and remind her of her value.
- Regardless of how she has loved you, express your appreciation, whether through a heartfelt conversation or a warm embrace.
- Even if she’s not the perfect mother, she is still here, and that’s a chance for both of you to grow.
Call her, hug her, and surround her with your love, even if it comes with its own challenges. If you’re estranged, reach out for reconciliation. If you feel indifferent, strive for compromise. If life is busy, carve out time for her. If you’re naturally reserved, show your affection. Even if you already express your love regularly, do so with extra generosity.
Last year around this time, I couldn’t have imagined a Mother’s Day without my mom. Please, don’t let another moment pass without connecting with yours. Life is too fragile.
Wishing you a heartfelt Mother’s Day filled with grace and love. For more insights on parenting after loss, check out this informative resource on parenting after loss. And if you’re interested in home insemination options, consider reading about our cryobaby home intracervical insemination syringe kit combo.
In summary, cherish your time with your mother, regardless of the dynamics of your relationship, and embrace the opportunities for love and connection while you still can.