A Note to Commenters: Let’s Foster Kindness or Kindly Keep Quiet

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I’ve always found the comments section of online articles to be a treasure trove of entertainment. The drama, the snark, the memes—it’s like a circus for the internet. Watching a chaotic thread spiral into a comedic disaster is like candy for my inner troll.

However, last week was a different story. I witnessed a shocking level of cruelty directed towards a widow with children for utilizing Medicaid. Yes, you heard that right—a grieving mother of three faced a barrage of scorn for seeking help. Let’s dive into some of those “charming” remarks.

“She’s just trying to milk the system. If she really wanted to work, she wouldn’t be on Medicaid!”

Really? A woman shares her heart-wrenching story about losing her husband, and this is your takeaway—accusing her of taking advantage?

“Exactly! She needed help to get back on her feet, not to stay off her feet. What a lazy person.”

This commenter has a history of using Medicaid herself, yet she calls a widow “lazy” for not jumping back into the workforce immediately after a funeral. How low can we go?

“Her kids are in school. What does she do all day? She should get a job!”

What this critic fails to consider is that the widow is actively trying to build a career while also taking care of her children and managing their grief. But who cares about that, right?

“Enough with the excuses! Get off your ass and get a job—like the rest of us!”

Another comment that misses the mark entirely. The article clearly states that this family contributed to the system through their taxes before tragedy struck. They turned to Medicaid not out of laziness, but necessity.

It’s bewildering to witness such harshness directed at someone already facing unimaginable hardship. There’s a troubling trend toward prioritizing cruelty over compassion. Does it really take more effort to be kind? When did we lose the ability to engage in civil discourse? Wishing harm upon someone is not “free speech,” and labeling a widow as a “moocher” crosses a line that shouldn’t be crossed.

If you feel the need to express your “free speech” through insults and personal attacks, then I kindly suggest you heed the classic advice: ZIP IT. Seriously. Just stop typing.

It’s not just one side of the ideological spectrum that’s guilty of this; it’s pervasive across all viewpoints. Disagreeing with someone doesn’t excuse rudeness. I welcome differing opinions and am more than willing to engage in discussions that are respectful and enlightening.

If you approach me with a differing viewpoint in a civil manner, I promise to listen. I won’t resort to name-calling, and I won’t dismiss your experiences. Each of us has a unique story that shapes our perspectives, and that’s something worth understanding.

Let’s envision a world where internet conversations lead to growth instead of hostility. After all, we owe it to ourselves and our children to set better examples.

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In summary, we can do better. Let’s choose kindness and understanding over unkindness and division. Our world—and our children—deserve it.