Pregnant women are often inundated with advice, but perhaps the most crucial is to listen to their own instincts. A recent story shared by a new mom, Lisa Thompson, serves as a poignant reminder of this truth and highlights the importance of taking action when something feels off.
Lisa took to social media to recount the tense hours leading up to the birth of her daughter, Ava. She hoped that by sharing her experience, she could help other expectant mothers who might find themselves in a similar situation.
The Day of Concern
The day began with Lisa noticing a decrease in Ava’s movements. At 38 weeks pregnant and busy at work, she initially brushed it off as just one of those quieter days. “Early that morning, I could feel Ava moving less than usual, but I thought she was just having an off day,” she noted. By noon, she felt a slight shift, but still no kicks, which began to concern her.
Later that evening, when her partner, Jake, felt her belly and inquired about the lack of activity, Lisa’s unease grew. “It hit me that she hadn’t moved all day,” she recalled. In hopes of coaxing some movement, Lisa tried a bath, had a cold drink, and even checked the heartbeat with a doppler device. Although she detected a heartbeat, Ava remained still.
Seeking Help
Feeling a mix of worry and confusion, Lisa texted her mother for advice, only to be met with conflicting information online. Half of what she read suggested immediate medical attention while the other half reassured her that it was normal for babies to have quiet days as they ran out of room. Thankfully, it was her mother who encouraged her to reach out to their midwife. The midwife quickly advised them to head to the labor center.
Upon arrival, Lisa was subjected to a series of tests and adjustments, including a rather unusual position where her upper body was tilted downward. After a short wait, the midwife delivered alarming news: they suspected an emergency cesarean might be necessary. “I barely had time to process the information before they rushed me into surgery,” Lisa said, recalling the urgency of the situation.
Ava’s Arrival
Fortunately, Ava was born healthy but needed oxygen immediately. It was later revealed that Lisa’s placenta had aged prematurely, depriving Ava of vital nutrients and oxygen. “They told me I couldn’t have prevented it, and they don’t really know why it happens,” Lisa explained. The chilling conclusion from the doctors was that had she waited any longer to seek help, Ava wouldn’t have survived the night.
Trust Your Instincts
Lisa’s message resonates loud and clear: trusting your instincts can be a matter of life and death. “You know your body and what’s normal for your baby. If something feels off, don’t hesitate—go in. Always err on the side of caution,” she advised.
This story serves as a critical reminder for all expectant mothers, emphasizing that it’s better to be safe than sorry. If you’re exploring your options for conception, check out our post on couples’ fertility journeys for intracervical insemination found here. For further resources, you can also explore the excellent information at Healthline on pregnancy.
Conclusion
In summary, Lisa’s experience underscores the importance of maternal instincts during pregnancy. By listening to her gut feelings and seeking medical attention, she ensured a safe arrival for her daughter and highlights a vital lesson for all expectant parents.